Jealousy and depression

Iced wrote:I can relate, I just hate it when I see groups of friends messing around having fun, couples making out, and girls with guys. Thoughts just rush through my head of what im missing out, and if I will ever with have the chance to do any of this.

I don't like them either...
If it happens that I'm on my bike when I see the "happy couple" walking by or just hanging out not far from the street, I gave them a super high and loud rev. just to screw the kodak moment. It doesn't solve anything but it makes me feel better in an almost evil way...

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DML1001 wrote:I have also never really been able to understand what about me is so horribly unappealing. I see guys who treat women like complete garbage, ordering them around, ignoring them, etc... and they seem to have no problems what so ever. It really makes no sense to me at all.

The twisted truth is that the opposite often is true of what one might believe would be the best thing to do to attract girls. If you are nice to a girl, respect her, listen to her, she would probably never fall for you. Zero attraction. Maybe you could be a friend for her that she could turn to when the badboys sleep with her girlfriends . Being a "nice guy" simply isn't sexually attractive for most women. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy

lonelytunes wrote:

DML1001 wrote:I have also never really been able to understand what about me is so horribly unappealing. I see guys who treat women like complete garbage, ordering them around, ignoring them, etc... and they seem to have no problems what so ever. It really makes no sense to me at all.

The twisted truth is that the opposite often is true of what one might believe would be the best thing to do to attract girls. If you are nice to a girl, respect her, listen to her, she would probably never fall for you. Zero attraction. Maybe you could be a friend for her that she could turn to when the badboys sleep with her girlfriends . Being a "nice guy" simply isn't sexually attractive for most women. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy

When I was younger this is exactly what I found. But I think as they get older, women start waking up to the fact that there are nice guys out there and that we deserve their attention. By then it might be too late for some of us...

When this gets me down I go to http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com/ and laugh bitterly at all the women moaning about what scumbags they end up with. Of course, many of them just go right out and get another one exactly the same...

Hang in there fellas...If you can get past your twenties mentally unscathed you might just find someone who has woken up to all this. It took me until I was 35 until someone wanted me.