Do you get your feelings hurt VERY easily???

by **hsp** » Thu Apr 05, 2007 8:00 pm

Himeros wrote:
hsp wrote:"HI as lana said I am she and PLEASE KNOW that I am deeply sorry if I caused any kinda pain, I am very new at this and I did ask my therapist if she thinks (from the traits of a AvPD) i have this and she said YES. Mullog please know that I was only trying to get the reassurence that others feel this way. I promiss I will not talk about the "symptoms" any more.

Again Please accept my appologies friend! I am deeply sorry! Embarassed

ok there you go, you had to go and make me feel bad for saying anything (which i do a lot)

I tried to tell you not to take it the wrong way, but your emotions got the best of you, in that case i'm sorry.

I wasn't trying to say that your posts don't help anyone or anything like that, because they do, lot of people respond (I have to). I was merely trying to let you know that you don't need reassurance for this disorder. You can bet that if your always feeling lonely, most of us probably are to. If you often feel extremely hurt by people (about little things), we probably do to. Most strange things you think or do will be because of this disorder, but not all things, people can be strange all on their own.

So you have to ask whatever questions you want to now, if you don't i will feel bad. Ask whatever you like, i never asked you stop ok or anything like that

HI Himeros please know friend that I only posted that cause I did not want anyone here to feel bad bout anything!!! PLEASE dont be sad!!!! [[[[hugs]]]]

Himeros (and other posters) I DO want to take the time to thank you for your responces...THEY ALL HAVE HELPED!!!!

Again, I am just getting to know my personality ,AvPD, a bit more!!!!

And you are right about the strange thing friend, :wink:

It is good to be strange I guess at times..that is what makes us all unique!!!!!!

AGAIN I am sorry for making you feel sad cause friend, that is not my intentions here, I hope to uplift people in anyway!!!!... AND ask more questions bout this trait of mine that i have just discovered!

God bless you all!

You know as much as I do think avpd is quite debilitating (at least for me), I can't help but wonder if it's made me more open-minded and empathetic. I don't know if maybe I would have been like that anyway, because the onset was quite early. So for me it would be 'I wish I didn't have avdp, anymore'.

Anywho, on topic. My feelings do get hurt very easily, but I think it's because something that might have been completely meaningless, I interpreted it as something that was. I tend to speculate and analyse other's reactions (as I'm sure we all do), but the already negative outlook on life and myself brings to believe the worst in most social interactions.
In general (and I hate saying this...) I'm more sensitive. Someone else's scratch would be a gun-shot wound for me.

by **musicandscience** » Sat Apr 07, 2007 12:02 pm

My feelings do get hurt very easily, but I think it's because something that might have been completely meaningless, I interpreted it as something that was. I tend to speculate and analyse other's reactions (as I'm sure we all do), but the already negative outlook on life and myself brings to believe the worst in most social interactions.
In general (and I hate saying this...) I'm more sensitive. Someone else's scratch would be a gun-shot wound for me.

I'm EXACTLY the same. I always see the worst in situations, but when people tell me I should try and see things positively, I take it as a personal attack. Despite knowing that, I can't seem to stop.

by **Iron Angel** » Sat Apr 07, 2007 3:37 pm

Yup.

I also tend to assume the worst in any social situation or possible social situation. Even if a long time good friend jokingly says something, I can take it very badly but I never show it. It just hurts inside, feels like everyone is trying to attack me and establish their superiority.

you know as much as I do think avpd is quite debilitating (at least for me), I can't help but wonder if it's made me more open-minded and empathetic. I don't know if maybe I would have been like that anyway, because the onset was quite early. So for me it would be 'I wish I didn't have avdp, anymore'.

Exactly the way I see it. I feel as if my problems have actually made me stronger in some sort of way. I feel more patient, open minded, reasoning, empathetic and kinder then most people. For that I'm grateful, so now I just wish I didn't have AvPD anymore because I want to get on with my life and not remain locked in this mental prison.

Do you get your feelings hurt VERY easily???

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