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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby clearskies84 » Tue May 26, 2015 5:16 pm

Parador wrote:I only said it looked like a troll post. I'm glad you're not a troll, but try to understand why it looks that way. "Unicorns fart weed" isn't likely to start a gender war. When you start implying that women have it easier you may be offending half the population. Not a good way to start here. Women have to worry about a lot of things that men hardly even think about - like getting pregnant, raped or even killed.

There are as many female virgins as male virgins. Look at this study:
http://www.livescience.com/13072-sex-st ... -rise.html

More and more young people are abstaining. No less than 27 percent of 15- to 24-year-old men have never had any form of sexual contact (oral, vaginal, or anal) with another person, up from 22 percent in 2002. Meanwhile, 29 percent of females in that age bracket have never had sex, also up from 22 percent at the time of the last study.


As they get older the stats between men and women are about even:
The survey found that almost everyone between the ages of 25 and 44 has had sex. About 98 percent of females and 97 percent of males in that range have had vaginal intercourse..

OP's probably from one of those forums where bitter men go to rant about women.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Parador » Tue May 26, 2015 5:59 pm

clearskies84 wrote:OP's probably from one of those forums where bitter men go to rant about women.
Could be that too. But the dating and mating game is really tough for someone with avpd or SAD. I know - I've been there. If the OP is having trouble because of anxiety issues surrogate therapy is still done. IPSA http://www.surrogatetherapy.org/
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby clearskies84 » Wed May 27, 2015 7:19 pm

Parador wrote:
clearskies84 wrote:OP's probably from one of those forums where bitter men go to rant about women.
Could be that too. But the dating and mating game is really tough for someone with avpd or SAD. I know - I've been there. If the OP is having trouble because of anxiety issues surrogate therapy is still done. IPSA http://www.surrogatetherapy.org/

Hey, I understand things aren't easy when you have anxiety, I can barely hold on to simple friends due to my anxiety and paranoia, but I don't go around complaining and spreading my insecurities.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Lady Mondegreen » Tue Jun 02, 2015 6:20 am

Having anxiety doesn't make him less annoying and misogynistic. I'm a woman and I'm fairly attractive and I can barely speak to people without freezing up. I don't blame it on other people or complain that others have it easier, it's my problem to deal with.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Parador » Tue Jun 02, 2015 6:37 pm

But all you have to do is go to a bar, drink some date rape drugs and pass out. lol. After that I'm sure some nice guy will make sure you get some.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Katarina2 » Tue Jun 02, 2015 6:43 pm

Life isn't fair, you have a losers attitude.
Consider this perspective: Because girls are generally in demand, and men are in supply - the most desirable men stand out A LOT MORE than their female counterparts. Work towards becoming highly desirable instead of complaining about social mechanics that you will never be able to change.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Tahawus » Wed Jun 03, 2015 2:41 am

Wannabe wrote:Life isn't fair, you have a losers attitude.
Consider this perspective: Because girls are generally in demand, and men are in supply - the most desirable men stand out A LOT MORE than their female counterparts. Work towards becoming highly desirable instead of complaining about social mechanics that you will never be able to change.


As a gay man, I could not agree more.

-- Tue Jun 02, 2015 9:42 pm --

Wannabe wrote:Life isn't fair, you have a losers attitude.
Consider this perspective: Because girls are generally in demand, and men are in supply - the most desirable men stand out A LOT MORE than their female counterparts. Work towards becoming highly desirable instead of complaining about social mechanics that you will never be able to change.


As a gay man, I could not agree more.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby FloremParietis » Wed Jun 03, 2015 9:26 pm

Wannabe wrote:As a gay man, I could not agree more.


As a straight man, I also agree. As I get older, I've realized that getting laid isn't that hard at all. I was a virgin till I was 23, and nowadays I can fairly easily charm the ladies. It's just a skill that you have to work on. The better you get at genuinely being yourself around others, the more you will attract people who like who you really are.

Women can more easily "get laid" in a way that most women don't really care about. Most women aren't just wanting to ###$, typically speaking. Intimacy and attachment are usually much more important for women than men. Women can go ###$ anyone, sure... but that's not all what they want. Just like a lot of men don't want intimacy and attachment.

For emphasis: not all women or all men behave this way. It's just more common.
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby Katarina2 » Thu Jun 04, 2015 6:22 pm

FloremParietis wrote:
Wannabe wrote:As a gay man, I could not agree more.


As a straight man, I also agree. As I get older, I've realized that getting laid isn't that hard at all. I was a virgin till I was 23, and nowadays I can fairly easily charm the ladies. It's just a skill that you have to work on. The better you get at genuinely being yourself around others, the more you will attract people who like who you really are.

Women can more easily "get laid" in a way that most women don't really care about. Most women aren't just wanting to ###$, typically speaking. Intimacy and attachment are usually much more important for women than men. Women can go ###$ anyone, sure... but that's not all what they want. Just like a lot of men don't want intimacy and attachment.

For emphasis: not all women or all men behave this way. It's just more common.

Be careful with those quotes!
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Re: Girls get laid easilly its so unfair

Postby FloremParietis » Thu Jun 04, 2015 6:45 pm

Wannabe wrote:
FloremParietis wrote:
Wannabe wrote:As a gay man, I could not agree more.


As a straight man, I also agree. As I get older, I've realized that getting laid isn't that hard at all. I was a virgin till I was 23, and nowadays I can fairly easily charm the ladies. It's just a skill that you have to work on. The better you get at genuinely being yourself around others, the more you will attract people who like who you really are.

Women can more easily "get laid" in a way that most women don't really care about. Most women aren't just wanting to ###$, typically speaking. Intimacy and attachment are usually much more important for women than men. Women can go ###$ anyone, sure... but that's not all what they want. Just like a lot of men don't want intimacy and attachment.

For emphasis: not all women or all men behave this way. It's just more common.

Be careful with those quotes!


lmao, crap. I deleted the wrong portion. Or I was very, very passive-aggressively trying to insult you.
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