Personality Type

Noteworthy examples of the Devoted personality type

Many people (and not just those of the Devoted personality type) have devoted traits or behave in a devoted manner. But the traits and behaviors of the Devoted personality type are not so inflexible and maladaptive or the cause of such significant subjective distress or functional impairment as to constitute

Dependent Personality Disorder

The noteworthy examples of the Devoted personality type are examples of a *type*, not of a disorder. It is my opinion that the ideal type which is described above is best characterized as devoted, and that the Devoted personality type represents the pervasive and enduring pattern of the personalities of the people listed below better than any other type.
Noteworthy examples of the Devoted personality type are: Index of noteworthy examples
John Adams | Woody Allen | Pamela Anderson | Jim Bakker | Humphrey Bogart | Edmund Burke | George Bush | George W. Bush | Steve Case | Carlos Castaneda | Richard J. Daley | Richard M. Daley |

Character Strengths and Virtues (what the Dependent type is proud of)

evoutness, Self-Denial, Decency; Seriousness, Soberness, Conservatism, Self-Control, Cautiousness, Obedience; Frugality, Thriftiness.
Forgiveness, Meekness, Forbearance, Patience; Humility, Modesty, Moderation, Discretion.
Sociability, Tactfulness.
Sincerity, Honesty, Justice; Reliability, Responsibility, Trustworthiness, Loyalty, Faithfulness.
Politeness, Courtesy, Thoughtfulness.
Altruism, Benignity, Gentleness, Sympathy, Sensitivity, Considerateness, Friendliness; Gratitude, Tenderness, Agreeableness, Fraternity.
Attentiveness, Persistence, Perseverance; Tidiness, Orderliness, Carefulness, Meticulousness, Dutifulness, Prudence; Steadiness.
Knowledgeableness, Fortitude, Stoicism, Humorousness.

I usually wait to get involved with people until I'm sure they like me.

Interpreting Your Personality Self-Portrait

Your leading style(s) most strongly shape your style, even if they sometimes conflict with one another. In brief, here are descriptions of your top styles:

Vigilant types have a resilient independence. They keep their own counsel, need no outside reassurance or advice, make decisions easily, and can take care of themselves. Feisty individuals, they do not hesitate to stand up for themselves, especially when under attack. They take criticism very seriously but are not intimidated. They are keen observers of others and their surroundings and are quick to criticize what they see. They recognize when something is not right and can detect double messages and mixed motives. They are suited to city life (and to research, law, law enforcement, editing, and journalism), where hyper-alertness and questioning others' intentions is important. They prepare themselves for the worst, which may make them appear suspicious, but as a result, they are difficult to intimidate or fool. They are tough, independent survivors, often serving important roles as protectors and champions of the underdog and of causes in general.

In their personal relationships, they are slow to warm up and trust others, but once they do, they are devoted, loyal, and protective. Caution and reserve mark their work relationships as well. They need to feel independent and autonomous in all areas of their life. They often match well with partners or subordinates who are comfortable with dependence and who let them be in charge. Loss of control can cause them extreme stress. They have a tendency to blame others for what goes wrong, rather than accept that sometimes no one is at fault. They are survivors, though, and their resilient autonomy usually sees them through the rough spots.

Solitary types have little need of companionship and are most comfortable alone. They do not need interaction with others to enjoy life. Self-possessed and self-controlled, these individuals are alone because they want to be alone, not because they feel left out. Free of the passionate need for others, they can be quite content standing back and watching others. Indeed, they are often gifted observers of nature and of other people.

Emotionally, highly Solitary people are even-tempered, calm, dispassionate, unsentimental, and unflappable. They display an apparent indifference to pain and pleasure and are not driven by sexual needs. They are not greatly influenced by either praise or criticism. They function well at work. They get down to work quickly and don't spend much time fraternizing at the water cooler. While they usually do not do well within the political framework of larger companies, when left alone to do their work, they can put their mind to it with unusual concentration.

Solitary individuals can be content within relationships as long as their partner accepts their need for solitude. However, even moderately Solitary people may not intuitively comprehend others' feelings or respond to their emotional cues. 'You don't love me!' is a common lament of partners of Solitary people. The more the partner pushes for emotional reactions and a depth of intimate feeling, the greater the stress on the Solitary person. To cope, he or she will retreat. The partner would be better off recognizing signs of caring that are different from the usual I-want-you, I-need-you, l-love-you's.

Serious types are solemn and not given to emotional expression. They are realistically aware of their own capabilities but they are also aware of their limitations. They are not tempted by vanity or self-importance. They hold themselves responsible for their actions. They=re thinkers, analyzers, evaluators, ruminators and will always play things over in their minds before they acting.

Serious individuals anticipate problems and when the worst happens, they=re prepared to deal with it. Serious individuals are realists. They see the hard, harsh nature of life clearly. They have no illusions and are incapable of imagining a silver lining. They are no-nonsense people particularly suited to hard times, when their ability to push on can help everyone to survive. They always work hard and provide for others without any sense of heroism or pride in their efforts.

Even though they can seem joyless, Serious types are not necessarily unhappy. They take great satisfaction in their view of the universe. They are interested in serious subjects, which they find reassuring, and they find no need to escape into pleasure. Serious people are intensely hard workers, dependable, and trustworthy. They persevere whether or not they are enthusiastic or well rewarded. This can make it all too easy for employers to take advantage of them. They do not expect encouragement or to be treated well by others.

Although they are not socially outgoing, once they do connect with others they form very stable, long-term attachments. They tolerate the rough spots in relationships well. They are as critical of others as they are of themselves, but their fault-finding gives them no pleasure. They deeply regret causing any pain . Others who continually insist that they change into optimistic outgoing, happy-go-lucky people cause them great stress but their characteristic cynicism helps them to cope.

NimplyDinply wrote:Interesting, cn. Would you say you have paranoid traits? PPD seems to be the most common comorbitity a amongst all the PDs.

creative_nothing wrote:

NimplyDinply wrote:Interesting, cn. Would you say you have paranoid traits? PPD seems to be the most common comorbitity a amongst all the PDs.

Traits? Probrably enouhgh symptons for a full diagnosis. Usually schizotypals met criteria for avoidant, schizoid, paranoid and sometimes borderline as well.

NimplyDinply wrote:

creative_nothing wrote:

NimplyDinply wrote:Interesting, cn. Would you say you have paranoid traits? PPD seems to be the most common comorbitity a amongst all the PDs.

Traits? Probrably enouhgh symptons for a full diagnosis. Usually schizotypals met criteria for avoidant, schizoid, paranoid and sometimes borderline as well.

If someone was looking at you on public transport and looked away when you looked at them, what would you be thinking or even feeling?