message for shy Girl or shy one. *title edited*

Hello there Shy One,

I’m 25 years old, 6 ft. tall, fit guy, who’s easy on the eyes (so I’m told ), and quite intelligent (this I know ).

If there’s one thing that my long past relationship taught me, it’s that I’ll never reach a true happiness with a ‘normal’ (outgoing) person. You can’t be really happy if you have to keep putting on a mask, rather than be yourself. It’s bad enough you have to pretend in front of the entire world - you shouldn’t have to do it in front of your loved one.

That’s why I would love nothing more, than to find a shy girl to face our lives together. Call me crazy – but I find shyness to be an extremely desirable personality trait, not only is it cute, but it also implies that the person is sensitive, caring and full of empathy. The only problem is finding another shy soul, hence my post here.

My AvPD was as bad as anyone’s, but life has thrown me a curve, by forcing me to be self-sufficient during my teens, and gradually the impossible, became tolerable (I believe the technical term would be “desensitizing”). This is not to say, that I became a social butterfly – far from it, I still avoid clubs and bars like the plague (those are the last places I would expect to find a soul mate anyway). But I no longer have a problem doing all the mundane things we find so hard at times.

Maybe you are tired of being alone, and spending every Valentine’s Day wondering what’s wrong with you. Or maybe you are running out of excuses why you still don’t have a boyfriend. Or perhaps you freeze whenever a guy asks you out in the real world, on the rare occasion that you allow yourself in a social situation where that’s even possible. All of the above?

Whatever the reason – if you feel like you’re ready to break the vicious cycle, and you live somewhere in the NJ/NYC area, e-mail me, we’ll talk some more, exchange pics and see where it takes us. I am not searching for a supermodel – but I do look for a fit person who takes care of their body. Who knows, maybe we’ll be able to complement each other’s lives for the better…

Wouldn’t it be great to find someone who won’t judge you? Someone who not only understands your AvPD, but can fully identify and empathize with it, because of first hand experience? I sure think so. If you feel like any of this makes sense, I’m really looking forward to hearing from you – here’s my e-mail: evanescent1980@yahoo.com.

P.S.
I am willing to lie about how we met .

I think that you have the wrong forum. Try Delphi.

title edited , some confusion whether you were looking for a shy girl to date( per admin). IF so this is inappropriate for the forum. PM her and if she has problems with your post, she will contact administration, and the post will be perm. deleted. Or you can delete it yourself before hand. I understand wanting to get to know people.

Please don't give out imfo you don't want the world to see.

I left the message, because it was to a member. You might find the member and respond that way. okay? Thanks.