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I suspect Harley has accidentally replied to the wrong thread.
Anyway, thanks for the replies.
Spektyr wrote:Asperger's is something of a "grab bag". There's a long list of traits, but you don't have to have them all to qualify.
Ah. Then it feels more likely that I have the syndrome. Because I've read about AS, and some symptoms fit in on me, while others don't.
I'm quite coordinated, and always have been (at least in most things). Obviously I was a bit off-balance that summer in my teens where I grew 5", but that's just to be expected. Games weren't very confusing, they're simple: the rules are pretty clear. I had trouble understanding the concept of offsides in soccer and fouls in basketball (not that I was good at either sport), but that's about it.
My main difficulty with sports in general is anything that requires me to do something different with one hand (or foot) than I'm doing with the other. I was a very skilled oarsman in college rowing, but could not suck more at basketball if I were paralyzed from the eyeballs down.
I sort of feel the same, heh. While I was quite quick at learning to skate fast (which doesn't require a lot of motor skills, merely that you move your legs fast as hell), I never learned how to dribble the puck, or shoot very well.
But I can build or repair things with my hands with very good dexterity. On the other hand, I do have a tendency to move strangely on occassion, mainly when I'm feeling relaxed and therefore not drawn up to my full height and walking with measured stride. Nothing that I or anyone else seems to be able to put their finger on what's "different", but it does seem to make it harder for people to notice me moving (because it's not something their brain is used to interpreting). Thus I seem to have the uncanny tendency to "appear" nearby and startle people. As a result, I try to make some kind of noise as I approach people from behind so as to not surprise them.
(People that make a noise with every footfall when they walk really annoy me, though. I don't like making unnecessary noise.)
Hehe, that "appearing", and startling people is something I've done too, despite my length (I am quite tall). I'm not sure it's because I have some Aspergian walk though.
Really looking forward to that evaluation, to get done with it.
EDIT: I have another question. Are Aspies often "odd" in their early years? Is it common that something is detected early, or do some AS kids appear entirely normal at first?
The reason I'm wondering is because my parents say I was just a normal kid, with mates and so. I learned to speak quickly, and pronounced words very well, but they don't recall that I ever acted like a "small professor", using complex words or so. My heavy social trouble started around the age of 10. Is this normal among Aspies, or does this imply that I suffer from something else, like perhaps some social phobia?