The conforming tyranny

I have realized it:



You dont really need to feel any guilt, failure, defeat, feeling "immature", feeling "egocentric" and all others traits which can be found in AS.

Why?


Its not a choice, never was and never gonna be unless you live in future and decide to have AS before you are born.....




Conforming tyranny.

Dont stick out. Dont behave odd, dont say weird stuff. Have empathy, have social skills etc.


All kinds of $#%^ that many people with AS hear from other people around them.
Those people can merely shut the fu** up!! They can go to hell with their conforming and subjective tyranny.

No respect to evaluating Aspies from the "conforming scale". Why?

Cause its like the whole world where all people without AS or any similar difficulties are part
of a global dictatorship. No credit to them. Conformity dictatorship.


Rotten system from the core. It can always live a year more until it get neutralized and recycled by
natural organisms.

Its like: Let the rotten stinky bag of of all kinds of $#%^ rotten itself into nothing.....

After that the remains can be used for good.



If you dont obey you get criticized, bullied, mistreated etc
from all kinds of people who either dont understand, care, tolerate, accept, include or at least dont bully.....


Say poor things, get excluded. Thrown in a socially isolated "prison", mentally, socially, emotionally etc

And get mistreated in jail like if it was in the worlds worst dictatorship ever.


Wtf is the matter with people???


We need a global aspie-revolution.....
If people cant be nice to aspies then they can always apply as conformity dictators.....

Cause its like a dictatorship, tyranny. Terrible, just unfair, inhumane, narrow-minded, subjective and evil. Tear it down, we dont want any conformity tyranny. It can all go to hell where tyranny belongs cause thats the home of evil and the devil haha




Im joking a bit and Im just pissed off.....




People need some knowledge about AS, tolerance, zero #######4 cause its trillions of tons of bs
and its heavy like a really big asteroid....
Damn...

I like bs asteroids <3 Smash and destroys everything <3 (irony, sarcasm)



Im pissed off.....



But I realize: Dont feel bad for having AS or any problem that you never ever choosed.
Just saying....

Do your best, take responsibility of course. But responsibility is a complicated subject.
Especially if you have any disabilities.


You dont choose to have some unfortunate genes. Nothing. Youre born out of nature.
Totally unrelated to you.



If I was "born like a 2 year old mentally forever" why should I care? Not a choice...


If youre born with 200 in IQ you havent lifted your little-finger for it. Excellent gift, if you dont use;
not creds.

If youre born mentally retarded and you use it, creds.




I also realize that age is so irrelevant. Misleading and just make people oppress everybody.
"aha, dont behave like a 2 year old"

People just feel bad about themselves and it doesnt solve problems very effectively.....

Constructive and positive objectivity is the clue.
But hey, many people cant do this. Excellent dictating....





Apply for conforming dictator-job now!!

I love to dictate and oppress aspies who behaves oddly <3 (totally mocks the tyranny)








Instead except for experience, knowledge

it all comes down to brain function. Activity, structure, integrity.

Always using age to explain and express is so simple, especially when it comes to
disabilities.

No understanding for any difficulties. Just age. Aha, 5 year old. Aaha, just immature.


AHA, you must accept critic and take responsibility.
That includes just accepting youre a total idiot with AS cause you never understand when people use irony and become depressed of the thought and eventually feel so bad you commit suicide....


Always take responsibility even if its deadly.....


Just so nobody misunderstands me here: Im being very ironic and sarcastic right now. And NOT against ANY aspie, any with disabilities.


More against people who criticize you constantly, almost oppress you cause you just dont get that social code right. Against the tyranny.


This is not meant as a malicious tread against any aspie at all in any way. Its more meant for
writing out my frustration, supporting aspies and criticize this wicked conforming tyranny cause I hate like the deadly #######5 plague.....



I have AS myself you see.



Jesus christ in company of the devil.....






After all many aspies have some superior strengths that other just dont have and
we like to use them too.
We could do a great job in areas of computers and technology.




Dont feel bad for having AS. Not your fault. The only thats your fault is if you dont do anything
to cope in spite of how difficult that can be.


Many dont even know they have AS, so how can they cope?

Try to be above it... the truth is, they have not chosen to be the way they are, no more than 'we' have chosen to be like this. Make no mistake, If it were the opposite way around, I have a very strong feeling that 'we' would more than likely do the very things that 'we' often dislike when others do to 'us'. Do not misunderstand, I am not defending that sort of behaviour nor do I condone it, Im only looking at the situation objectively.

Also, It is futile to build resentment towards people like this anyways as it more than likely adds fuel to the fire and or further cause distress to ones self...

EBR wrote:Try to be above it... the truth is, they have not chosen to be the way they are, no more than 'we' have chosen to be like this. Make no mistake, If it were the opposite way around, I have a very strong feeling that 'we' would more than likely do the very things that 'we' often dislike when others do to 'us'. Do not misunderstand, I am not defending that sort of behaviour nor do I condone it, Im only looking at the situation objectively.

Also, It is futile to build resentment towards people like this anyways as it more than likely adds fuel to the fire and or further cause distress to ones self...

Hey, thanks for comment.

I feel I already begin to crawl somewhat above it and thats obviously the best solution. Simply dont care too much what people think and just sticking to your own view.

The resentment I feel is more against bullies I guess. And just bad critic, subjective and harsh critic.


But you are wrong at some point, really:

Nobody choose to have AS, but people can choose to not criticize in an subjective, harsh manner.
But I guess thats what people do when theyre ignorant about something or just cant lack the ability to criticize more objectively.

I found that calm verbal and objective defense is the best tactic or otherwise just dont care.
But AS makes this verbal defense more difficult, its like you freeze when criticized.

Again its not the constructive, objective and more positive critic I dislike.
There were times I wished my parents were either robots or just more rational.

But I have managed to make them realize this case about critic. So now they have improved, so have I. And this works with parents, its just worse with other people.

I dont get so much criticized actually, Im more afraid I might be in the future when I get more social.
Think one should prepare for it, build up strength and confidence beforehand.


Another thing that people can choose to is to not bully others.
However, the society and the parents of bullies have much of the responsibility here.


So the world must slowly develop into tolerate AS and other problems. In the mean while aspies must struggle and they will unfortunately inevitably suffer.


I wanna share some tips in a new tread. Check it out.

I get where you're coming from Nerd, and I agree to a certain extent, but I also agree with EBR's sentiments (I know, sitting on the fence again ).

The fact is, as people with AS, we are in a minority, but then again, so are most people in some way if you look hard enough. I totally agree that AS has its own set of potential difficulties, and conquering them will be a major challenge in many people's lives. I don't like to think of myself "suffering" from AS, but then again, some of its core symptoms have been at the root of any major problems in my life. Knowledge leads to understanding, so I hope that I am going in the right direction these days.

It's taken me a while to see the positives of AS, but I am lucky: I have good intelligence, am well qualified and have always worked. Other are not so lucky, and I am painfully aware of that. I am with you on the need to promote the positives and deal with the negatives though! There is never any excuse for bullying, conformity can be what many people aspire to, but I also agree that there should be more tolerance for difference in those who do not. I consider myself a tolerant person most of the time (although I cannot abide dishonesty and intolerance in others), but I can accept people for who they are if they can also be honest. Hopefully that's not too contradictory and you see what I mean?

positivelyportrayed wrote:I get where you're coming from Nerd, and I agree to a certain extent, but I also agree with EBR's sentiments (I know, sitting on the fence again ).

The fact is, as people with AS, we are in a minority, but then again, so are most people in some way if you look hard enough. I totally agree that AS has its own set of potential difficulties, and conquering them will be a major challenge in many people's lives. I don't like to think of myself "suffering" from AS, but then again, some of its core symptoms have been at the root of any major problems in my life. Knowledge leads to understanding, so I hope that I am going in the right direction these days.

It's taken me a while to see the positives of AS, but I am lucky: I have good intelligence, am well qualified and have always worked. Other are not so lucky, and I am painfully aware of that. I am with you on the need to promote the positives and deal with the negatives though! There is never any excuse for bullying, conformity can be what many people aspire to, but I also agree that there should be more tolerance for difference in those who do not. I consider myself a tolerant person most of the time (although I cannot abide dishonesty and intolerance in others), but I can accept people for who they are if they can also be honest. Hopefully that's not too contradictory and you see what I mean?

Its a good thing to sit on the fence. Take no part, be between. Be objective. Thats what you mean right?

You,re right about that. However some people are "even more minority".
And AS might be one of those that sticks out most of all.

Knowledge is power, no doubt. Actually one the biggest power possible to have.


Thats good. To see the positives. Intelligence is good to have, I couldnt have lived without.

No, its not too contradictory. I dont find it much contradictory at all.

Its a good thing to sit on the fence. Take no part, be between. Be objective. Thats what you mean right?

Yes, pretty much - I always try to see both sides of an argument, even if I might agree with one side more than another ... I try to listen. I try to be as objective as possible, although I realise that my view will always be subjective to a certain extent beacuse it's personal. I try to stick to logic if I can, but I am aware that I don't manage that all the time