I like all of you canot make eye contact very well with people, when i see someone doing something to someone, or doing something i beleive is wrong, i feel empowered to do something about it, my asperger proplems go away.
I try to put my state of mind in this situation before i go into a anxious social sitution (kinda like psyching yourself up)

People often misjudge people with AS as being fearfull or scared but i beleive were more mentally stronger than people would try to make out it just that theres that blockage of not wanting to be offensive or rude, which is why the eye contact thing is such a problem.