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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby razmaccor » Thu May 20, 2010 4:00 pm

Ok just read one more part, and here is some honest advice:

Once you get a job, then maybe we can talk about becoming a god.

I can relate though, I haven't completely given up that I have a meaningful role to play in the world, and I mean on an almost delusional grandiose level. And maybe I do, who knows, maybe you do too.

But one of the best things someone told me was "You're not that special." Not in a mean way, but a grounding one. If I die tomorrow, how many people out of a few billion will notice? A microscopic percentage, even less if I consider all of time. I am just a blip on the map.

But I find it empowering. It means my life is what I make it, the meaning it has is the meaning I create. To quote He-Man "I have the power!" But it means S*** if all I do is talk about what I am gonna do.

So for now, I have short term goals.

1) graduate
2) finish #1

So seriously, job first. Put your money where your mouth is. Then maybe I will entertain the god idea. I post this with love, and you and I are very similar btw, though I think you are a bit more angry. :mrgreen:
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby totally_owned » Thu May 20, 2010 9:32 pm

CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:
Incorrect. "Me being arrogant" should read: my being arrogant
It is incorrect to say "me being arrogant." Instead, we use "my" in the possessive sense because "being" is being used as a gerund.


:rolls eyes: My sincerest apologies for not going through my post with a fine tooth comb to polish it up for trade journal publication.

CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:In that case you shouldn't have bothered to post. You're apologizing for something deliberately done?!


It was used in the sense that it was long and rambling and I can sympathize with it being an annoying read.
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby totally_owned » Thu May 20, 2010 9:32 pm

razmaccor wrote:Ok just read one more part, and here is some honest advice:

Once you get a job, then maybe we can talk about becoming a god.

I can relate though, I haven't completely given up that I have a meaningful role to play in the world, and I mean on an almost delusional grandiose level. And maybe I do, who knows, maybe you do too.

But one of the best things someone told me was "You're not that special." Not in a mean way, but a grounding one. If I die tomorrow, how many people out of a few billion will notice? A microscopic percentage, even less if I consider all of time. I am just a blip on the map.

But I find it empowering. It means my life is what I make it, the meaning it has is the meaning I create. To quote He-Man "I have the power!" But it means S*** if all I do is talk about what I am gonna do.

So for now, I have short term goals.

1) graduate
2) finish #1

So seriously, job first. Put your money where your mouth is. Then maybe I will entertain the god idea. I post this with love, and you and I are very similar btw, though I think you are a bit more angry. :mrgreen:


I'm not in school... and I do have a job.
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby CrocodileInTheStreet » Fri May 21, 2010 1:04 am

totally_owned wrote:
CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:
Incorrect. "Me being arrogant" should read: my being arrogant
It is incorrect to say "me being arrogant." Instead, we use "my" in the possessive sense because "being" is being used as a gerund.


:rolls eyes: My sincerest apologies for not going through my post with a fine tooth comb to polish it up for trade journal publication.


Combs are used in people's hair. You intimated a desire for perfection. I was merely assuaging that desire.

totally_owned wrote:
CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:In that case you shouldn't have bothered to post. You're apologizing for something deliberately done?!


It was used in the sense that it was long and rambling and I can sympathize with it being an annoying read.


It wasn't annoying. I read it on my own accord.
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby totally_owned » Fri May 21, 2010 2:29 am

CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:
totally_owned wrote:
CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:
Incorrect. "Me being arrogant" should read: my being arrogant
It is incorrect to say "me being arrogant." Instead, we use "my" in the possessive sense because "being" is being used as a gerund.


:rolls eyes: My sincerest apologies for not going through my post with a fine tooth comb to polish it up for trade journal publication.


Combs are used in people's hair. You intimated a desire for perfection. I was merely assuaging that desire.

totally_owned wrote:
CrocodileInTheStreet wrote:In that case you shouldn't have bothered to post. You're apologizing for something deliberately done?!


It was used in the sense that it was long and rambling and I can sympathize with it being an annoying read.


It wasn't annoying. I read it on my own accord.


Now you're just being obtuse.
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby CrocodileInTheStreet » Fri May 21, 2010 6:01 pm

totally_owned wrote:Now you're just being obtuse.


I agree.
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Re: Officially an Aspie... what to do...

Postby Chucky » Fri May 21, 2010 9:43 pm

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