Ok. I don't know if I understood this right, cause I started agreeing with this article when it was saying we need a more tolerant society that accepts differences in people's personalities and abilities. Yes, we do. (Especially in this country), which is just what is described. I agree, society should tolerate eccentric people, but it does not!
Then the article goes on to saying that Aspergers is a label used as an excuse for antisocial? behaviour. I don't like that, I don't think it should ever be an excuse for bad behaviour, but perhaps an explanation one can work towards the better from.
Society can be quite intolerant and I do believe people with AS as kids need a lot of guidance and logical explaining even to the smallest most "obvious" bits of information, and what if they do not get it?
I do definitely think that people with AS can be or become very good people, very ethical people and not anti social at all, if they just learn to understand their surroundings and the fact that there are many people on this planet, all different, some good some rogues and their ideas, beliefs and space needs to be respected as long as they do not break laws or ruin lives.
But for instance my son hated playing football at school and did not want to participate in ring games. Now why that is such a problem for the school I don't know, if it is crucial for their education, then they must force him to join, or leave him alone, give him something else to do, it's as simple as that. But why is it such a problem for them that he does not want to do this? I guess he is being anti social by finding this - not fun or interesting at all?
Sometimes I wonder whether all these categories within psychology were created by Aspies and their need for explaining and categorising their environment and the people within it? There are so many categories! I know only some I can definitely say I do not belong in, like schizophrenia, I know definitely I do not see things that are not there, although as a child I might have a couple of times imagined something so strongly it was almost there.
I was going through the AS categories, because within AS there are categories made by someone! I found a couple of categories that I can well fit within. Sometimes I feel almost everyone in my family could fit into the AS sphere somewhere.
What is really a sure sign that a person is completely normal? Would it be that they do not believe in AS or any of the other disorders cause they can't see why people need to be categorized as anything other then a good person or a rogue, or is that an AS trait?
Sorry I am confused... Somebody help me, please.