Our partner

Asperger and Empathy

Asperger's Syndrome message board, open discussion, and online support group.

Asperger and Empathy

Postby TheCastleOf » Sun Aug 27, 2017 11:35 pm

Based on hindsights from Seabreeze, wondering if many of you guys feel like they're feeling people's emotions too intensely - as opposed to the commonly held view on Asperger ?

And I'm curious how many of you who identifies with the criterion above also identifies with being a MBTI feeling type ?
TheCastleOf
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 291
Joined: Thu May 11, 2017 8:24 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 6:24 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby shock_the_monkey » Mon Aug 28, 2017 12:22 am

i'm not so sure about other peoples' emotions, however, i can certainly feel my own too intensely and they'll shutdown, as a form of self-protection, leaving me feeling numb. i'm an INTJ.
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

don't like it but i guess i'm learning

... shock the monkey to life
shock_the_monkey
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 4974
Joined: Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:36 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 12:24 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby TheCastleOf » Tue Aug 29, 2017 4:17 pm

I've heard that this is something INTJs do, retreat to make sense of their feelings. That sucks though if you're feeling numb as a result. It happens to me when I lack the tools to solve an emotional conundrum, i.e. when it's easier to repress the emotion than to make light of it.
TheCastleOf
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 291
Joined: Thu May 11, 2017 8:24 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 6:24 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby shock_the_monkey » Wed Aug 30, 2017 1:45 am

SBB is an INTJ. she might just be along to express an opinion on this subject.
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

don't like it but i guess i'm learning

... shock the monkey to life
shock_the_monkey
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 4974
Joined: Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:36 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 12:24 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby TheCastleOf » Wed Aug 30, 2017 5:23 am

shock_the_monkey wrote:SBB is an INTJ


I did not see that coming ... And this is how my grand theory is stillborn.

Do you guys feel emotionally numb outside the scope of depressive states ? (Please forgive my ignorance)
TheCastleOf
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 291
Joined: Thu May 11, 2017 8:24 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 6:24 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby shock_the_monkey » Wed Aug 30, 2017 7:45 am

my feeling were shutdown for decades. it took a major trauma to jolt them out of that. we could debate how depressed i was throughout that. i guess there might be some correlation.
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

don't like it but i guess i'm learning

... shock the monkey to life
shock_the_monkey
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 4974
Joined: Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:36 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 12:24 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby TheCastleOf » Thu Aug 31, 2017 7:47 pm

Thanks for the explanation STM, what you're saying makes a lot of sense.
TheCastleOf
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 291
Joined: Thu May 11, 2017 8:24 pm
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 6:24 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Asperger and Empathy

Postby nothinggirl123 » Mon Oct 16, 2017 3:34 am

shock_the_monkey wrote:i'm not so sure about other peoples' emotions, however, i can certainly feel my own too intensely and they'll shutdown, as a form of self-protection, leaving me feeling numb. i'm an INTJ.


this is exactly how i am, but also with others emotions, like in books or on tv
nothinggirl123
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 5
Joined: Tue Oct 10, 2017 3:01 am
Local time: Sat Jul 05, 2025 6:24 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


Return to Asperger's Syndrome Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests