Going to clubs/casual sex/dating sites

I'm curious to know do any of you here feel comfotable in clubs? I've been there so often with friends, but Always feel bored. I can't dance either even though I'd like to learn it but for some reason my movements are perceived as unnatural.

I only get frustrated at clubs because I don't feel comfortable there so can't get laid. It happened once but that was pure luck and the girl in question was a bit promiscuous. No problem with that, but just pointing out it was an exceptional situation.

I've tried dating sites, but never actually met up with someone from here, even though I'd like to try it with all those new apps. I think it's a good way to practice social skills.

Then there's a third way to get into touch with girls: adult dating sites such as adultfriendfinder and similar sites. The thing is when I'm alone I can get very horny and want to try many different sexual things/fantasies, but once I meet a girl I just can't sleep with other girls cos I get attached to her (if we click).

I'm torn between casual sex or relationship. On one hand I want a relationship because I love doing things together with a girl I love such as watching film, cooking for her, making her feel good, being different and better than other men, being faithful etc. I love it when girls admire me. I hate liars/cheaters.

On the other hand I'm keen to try an adult dating site where meet ups are directed at having sex, but I could also find long lasting friendships there. Many of the girls on there seem adventurous in bed like me and they seem really interesting too, not just interested in sex, but also in intellectual conversations etc.

So I want a relationship,but at 22 I'm still young and I've been heartbroken many times. I don't know if I already have the right skills to succeed in maintaining a relationship.

Your thoughts?

Well, this is a problem that most men have to be honest. I don't have asp. (a family member of mine does), but I have similar feelings. Also I'm an introvert, so I don't like clubs either, so we have some things in common. There are plenty other places to meet women besides clubs. I find the best way to meet women is by just going about my daily activities, or meeting them through friends doing group activities.

The way I see it is both casual sex and a relationship each have their benefits and drawbacks. There is also no reason why you need to choose one consistently over the other. If you're single just keep an opened mind and when an opportunity presents itself for either a relationship or some casual fun just take it and don't obsess over it.