Aspergers and Thought Of Others???

Hi everyone my name is Anthony and I am a 21 year old male with aspergers I have alot of questions but one of them is do any of you feel as if it is hard for you to get along with others if they dont have your views on life??? I am a very nice guy I just have a hard time getting along with others that dont think like me does anybody else feel the same?????

I don't feel like that now but I do understand your way of thinking because I am a 23 year old male with Aspergers. You simply just have to accept that other people are different. If you do not get along with them then so-be-it but there are bound to be people out there that have different views on life than you that you WILL get along with.

Chucky wrote:I don't feel like that now but I do understand your way of thinking because I am a 23 year old male with Aspergers. You simply just have to accept that other people are different. If you do not get along with them then so-be-it but there are bound to be people out there that have different views on life than you that you WILL get along with.

I feel bad alot of times because of how I lose my temper because at heart I am generally a very sweet and loving guy I think I lose my temper because my entire life I hardly fit in and on top of that nobody agrees with what comes out of my mouth I am not entirely alone I have a few friends with somewhat of the same problems although I feel my best friend has aspergers and or bipolar but she absolutely won't admit just claims she is depressed and or confused.............................

I cant accept other people... ( Some of them of course )

Composer wrote:I cant accept other people... ( Some of them of course )

Composer in what ways can't you accept other people? I was curious because I only have a hard time when they dont share my viewpoints on life...........

...and how many people have you encountered that share your view-point(s) on life? Personally speaking, I have never found anybody that I can get along with for extended periods of time. I find it very hard to maintain long-term friendships for this reason... but I prefer to be alone anyway.

Chucky wrote:...and how many people have you encountered that share your view-point(s) on life? Personally speaking, I have never found anybody that I can get along with for extended periods of time. I find it very hard to maintain long-term friendships for this reason... but I prefer to be alone anyway.

Well............ I haven't met many people that do share my viewpoints on life the only people that I can think of is my parents and my best friend as well as her family the weird thing is that I want to be alone and yet I do want social contact yet I basically just stick with her and her family.............. because me and family do not get along that well for some reason to me and I am not trying to be funny cause the problems we all have on this forum are life threatening in my opinion to our mental health I feel as if my problems are almost like ''mental obesity'' it prevents me from doing things for and with the people I care about I feel as if I have to work extra hard to get through the day almost like the way a overweight person does except my problem is mentally............ I am sorry about the rant I just dont have alot of other people to talk to except for whom I have mentioned above I want to thank everyone on the forum for being there for me..............

AspieOriginal1 wrote:

Composer wrote:I cant accept other people... ( Some of them of course )

Composer in what ways can't you accept other people? I was curious because I only have a hard time when they dont share my viewpoints on life...........

I just always assume that other people are stupid somewhy. I know its wrong of me. .. ... ....

Hey,


AspieOriginal1, you are right in saying that we are limited in what we can do - Asperger's syndrome is actually listed as a disability here (Ireland). Why do you see it as a life-threatening illness however? - Do you mean suicide? I toyed with suicide about a year ago. I tried twice, failed, and am confident right now that I won't try it again despite how bad things may become.


Composer: It is best not to think of other people as stupid. You're not a mean person but thoughts like that will result in you exuding arrogance which is not a very nice trait to have.

Chucky wrote:Hey,


AspieOriginal1, you are right in saying that we are limited in what we can do - Asperger's syndrome is actually listed as a disability here (Ireland). Why do you see it as a life-threatening illness however? - Do you mean suicide? I toyed with suicide about a year ago. I tried twice, failed, and am confident right now that I won't try it again despite how bad things may become.


Composer: It is best not to think of other people as stupid. You're not a mean person but thoughts like that will result in you exuding arrogance which is not a very nice trait to have.

When I said life threatening I didnt mean as far as suicide I was pointing more towards alot of stress and pain I was going from my point of view it is kind of hard for me to explain things so if you have any questions I will answer them...........