The Silent Treatment

Psychofriend wrote:Even when the psychopath I loved got angry at me and threatened to kill me, I still felt happy because I read that a psychopath doesn't need to hate someone to murder them, which means he did still care about me.

That logic really made my day

I didn't really understand the logic in that sentence either... please elaborate...

In regards to the other responses, I totally agree that it is best to act like you could take or leave someone with ASPD, his ex treats him like dirt and he simply cannot get enough of her, keeps going back because she doesn't give a sh*t about him.

Like I assumed, he has actually returned to her, hence the cold shoulder I am receiving.. but just like the last time it won't be long before they wear thin on each other and I will probably hear from him when things get rocky between them... It will be up to me to be strong and ignore his calls because there is no worse feeling in the world than being second best to somebody else. Part of me secretly hopes he will call so I can reject him the way he did to me.. make him feel what I felt.. I wish I could just 'get over it' and 'move on' but its not that simple.

As a side note, I think I have BPD (Therapist says I have traits but is hesitant to diagnose but whatever) and my neediness and possessiveness shines through no matter how hard I try to hide it. When I think of it there were times he asked me if I was bipolar and why I was such a 'bully' to him but I think he secretly loved my instability and the fact that he could push my buttons so easy.

Does that sound about right?

Britney, when you say this guy has ASPD what traits of it does he have? How do you know he has it?

It may help a little more for some of us to give advice as to whether you should try to get back with him to know a little bit more about this guys history and diagnosis.

Psychofriend wrote:Britney, when you say this guy has ASPD what traits of it does he have? How do you know he has it?

It may help a little more for some of us to give advice as to whether you should try to get back with him to know a little bit more about this guys history and diagnosis.

How would you know anything about psychopaths?

History Mirror wrote:

Psychofriend wrote:Britney, when you say this guy has ASPD what traits of it does he have? How do you know he has it?

It may help a little more for some of us to give advice as to whether you should try to get back with him to know a little bit more about this guys history and diagnosis.

How would you know anything about psychopaths?

Oh really funny question. I've been the girlfriend to more than one high-degree psychopath. One of whom received an official diagnosis of psychopathy while incarcerated after several serious assault and knife fight charges.

Psychofriend can you stop typing in pink please it's hurting my eyes.

thank you.

Psychofriend wrote:

History Mirror wrote:

Psychofriend wrote:Britney, when you say this guy has ASPD what traits of it does he have? How do you know he has it?

It may help a little more for some of us to give advice as to whether you should try to get back with him to know a little bit more about this guys history and diagnosis.

How would you know anything about psychopaths?

Oh really funny question. I've been the girlfriend to more than one high-degree psychopath. One of whom received an official diagnosis of psychopathy while incarcerated after several serious assault and knife fight charges.

Being stupid enough to date 1 psychopath, let alone multiple says all i need to know. Your pink txt is indeed quite annoying.

FYI dating a psychopath, even one you claim has claimed to be tested, doesn't qualify you anymore than reading 1 Dr. Hare book would. But hey, w/e.

Psychofriend wrote:

History Mirror wrote:

Psychofriend wrote:Britney, when you say this guy has ASPD what traits of it does he have? How do you know he has it?

It may help a little more for some of us to give advice as to whether you should try to get back with him to know a little bit more about this guys history and diagnosis.

How would you know anything about psychopaths?

Oh really funny question. I've been the girlfriend to more than one high-degree psychopath. One of whom received an official diagnosis of psychopathy while incarcerated after several serious assault and knife fight charges.

have you been diagnosed with anything?

Psychofriend wrote:Psychopaths do that. The real ones.
Remember Hannibal Lecter? Sometimes he just wouldn't talk at all.
The psychopaths can turn to stone and not say a word.
YOU - as the girlfriend (or ex girlfriend) to a psychopath need to learn your place. As a normal lperson like me, who is not a psychopath, we can't demand the psychopath speaks to us. The psychopaths are essentially IQ god's. They are like dark princes or black angels who move through the world, speaking whenever they feel the urge and killing those they dislike.
We, as lovers of the true psychopaths have no right to complain or demand they speak to us.
You should feel honoured that he spoke to you for the time he did.
Even when the psychopath I loved got angry at me and threatened to kill me, I still felt happy because I read that a psychopath doesn't need to hate someone to murder them, which means he did still care about me.

"LOLWUT" (i think that's the one? lol) have a nice time in your little fantasy world there...

Psyquest wrote:have you been diagnosed with anything?

She has - Trollitis.