KenWalker wrote:What I do mention that separates normals is that they're capable of feeling reward when they see, for example, a life saved by someone else that they weren't responsible for. They feel the good of humanity.
Ken is right. The satisfaction of accomplishment, the narcissistic pride that comes from public recognition, and the sense of relief that comes from seeing a wrong made right may often occur together, but they are not all the same. In a discussion about morality some weeks ago, I told someone what I wanted most for humanity, and I made it clear that I didn't care whose accomplishment brought this about, as long as it was done. While I imagine it would hurt my ego at least a little if, for example, I were a pathologist who worked with another pathologist to end a terrible epidemic, and the other received all the credit even though I did most of the work, and I would feel cheated if he claimed my work as his own (in the same way I would feel cheated if he hired me to work for him and then refused to pay what he promised me), I think my pain in either of those scenarios would be insignificant compared to my relief at the end of the epidemic. I would feel relieved and grateful even if it were not my accomplishment at all.
If antisocial persons never feel this relief, that may be why so many seek to dominate and control others. It may be the only type of antisocial experience comparable to the prosocial experience of witnessing the triumph of humanity over a terrible disease.