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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby AlphaMikeFoxtrot » Sun Mar 13, 2011 9:45 am

abracadabra wrote:
abracadabra wrote:Darling Nikki? First Prince song with a girl's name in it that I could think of. Of course, I guess your daughter could be named Purple Rain or something.

Or, like:

Insatiable
Irresistible Bitch
Goldn1gga
Jack U off
Lolita
Nasty Girl

Sorry, AMF. There's just soooo many. Prince makes this way too easy. :lol:

I'm glad you had fun.

fiveintime wrote:
AlphaMikeFoxtrot wrote:When she was about 12 she informed me she "knew what I was, she'd researched it," and when I confirmed she was actually correct she told me I should "get help so maybe I would care about someone other than myself."

Interesting. What clued her in - or was it just you being yourself?

I'm inclined to think it was the first 10 years or so of her life spent listening to her mother's unadulterated opining.

Mr. No One wrote:A couple of comments that some of you might disagree with...."coldasice" & "alphafoxtrot" sound like sociopaths to me and the rest of us like psychopaths. Disorganized vs Organized.

You came to a conclusion like that from a single post huh? I can't speak for anyone but myself, of course, but you're pretty far off the mark.

I also don't buy into the whole socio/psychopaths defined as disorganized vs. organized. I'm more of the environmental vs. genetic school myself.

Myers wrote: If the psychopathic parent has any interest in the kid, it's usually because they want to craft the kid in their image, which is conditional positive regard, which, if you follow Rogerian theory, is bad and causes anxiety and whatnot.

This is a large part of the reason my kid seems hellbent on pretending I don't exist now (I'm pretty sure she threw around the word "puppet" at one point or another); the other part being that my interest in her is not fueled by doses of alpha-hypophamine like any genuine, respectable parent, but rather a curiosity to see what she can do with my half of her genes. Always had a thing for genetics.
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby fiveintime » Sun Mar 13, 2011 9:57 am

AlphaMikeFoxtrot wrote:I'm inclined to think it was the first 10 years or so of her life spent listening to her mother's unadulterated opining.

That can mess up any kid, regardless of the parent's problems - real or perceived.
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby Twinkling Butterfly » Sun Mar 13, 2011 5:16 pm

Demon wrote:It's easy to hurt other people and not give a shlt, but it's different when it comes to your own children because they are a part of you.

[...]

I am only against it because I don't believe the legal justice system has a right to lay down laws against murder and then sentence people to death themselves.

[...]

Abortion is not part of the natural plan.

Kinship altruism, fairness, and an appreciation for order? Wow. You should look into naturalistic ethics. I think you might find it agreeable...or at least interesting.
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby Twinkling Butterfly » Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:17 am

K1, isn't it your turn?
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby anti » Fri Jul 22, 2011 3:56 am

LOL nice thread necromancy there, twinkling! alright, i'll bite.

Age: mid-thirties

Gender: m

Relationship Status: uhhhh. depends on the day lately.

Number of children, and their age/s: 4 (that i know of) 3yrs, 8yrs, 10yrs, 12 yrs.

Were you clinically diagnosed? yuppers, long time ago in a galaxy far, far away.

What was your motivation around having children? well.. the first one was an accident.. the second was... aan accident... the third was my borderline bitch of of a whore wife wanting a third kid, so she stopped birth control and didn't tell me... fourth was.. you guessed it, an accident.

What was your relationship like with your parents? tense.

Describe your childhood? leave it to beaver, only replace beaver with me and a tendency to burn/break things, kill pets, and throw crap at my mom when she bugged me.

What kind of parenting style do you have with your children? lassez faire.

How would you describe your relationship with your children, are you close? ...close? they listen when i tell them to do things... and they don't bug me much most of the time.

Do your children know you identify as a sociopath? seriously? the oldest is 12... why the hell would she care?

Have you ever been or wanted to be cruel towards your own children (directly, indirectly)? not really a sadist... so... no?

How would your friends or family describe your parenting skills? however i want them to.

How has being a parent impacted on you? meh.

Do any of your children possess sociopathic traits? my 12 yr old is a snarky little bitch, but other than that, dunno don't really pay that close attention most of the time.

What are some of the positives of being a sociopathic parent? uuuhhhh.... i don't care

What are some of the negatives of being a sociopathic parent? uuuhhhh.... see above.

Do you think being a sociopathic parent gives you an advance/disadvantage over other parents? this is getting really annoying.

What morals/beliefs do you instill in your children? srsly?

How would it affect you if your children later were diagnosed as sociopaths? wow, i'm not sure why i'm even replying to this anymore.....
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby Eric_Lee » Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:13 am

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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby anti » Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:18 am

Eric_Lee wrote:Image


i would like to humbly accept this honor on behalf of my survivng spawn... all credit must really be given to the tense relationship with my parents and of course, meh.
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby Eric_Lee » Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:20 am

So modest! :oops:
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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby anti » Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:34 am

i guess the best piece of advice i've recieved on the road to winning htis award would have to be:

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Re: The Sociopathic Parent - Questionnaire

Postby Eric_Lee » Fri Jul 22, 2011 4:38 am

Fat children are such disgusting results of awful parents -.-
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