Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

I see, that does make sense. As I said, I do think being homosexuality, psychopathy and a few other things have great impact in how I develop a sense of self. So how does that apply to you?

Everyone needs to learn how to drop the homo and hetero from sexual.


See... everything and you... and more...

I see, that does make sense. As I said, I do think being sexuality, psycho and a few other things have great impact in how I develop a sense of self. So how does that apply to you?

Yurippe wrote:@Crystal

I see, that does make sense. As I said, I do think being homosexuality, psychopathy and a few other things have great impact in how I develop a sense of self. So how does that apply to you?

I was a very irritable, aggressive, impulsive child, and also needy for attention and affection to the extent that I sought out affection from my brother which led to experiences that maybe impacted how I developed my sense of self.

I have a deviant sense of self also, because I was ostracised for being too mature essentially very early on from mainstream development and peers, and got involved in an antisocial/criminal crowd very early on.

I think our peers growing up have a big influence on what we become. especially if we regard them as family - because we lacked a sense of family at home - rather than just a phase.

Come on Crystal... don't be one of the avoidants. Do you know I love you? Not a whole lot, at least a little.

k fine... do you think I love you at least a little?

Or wait wait... are you thinking I love you at least a little?

I have a deviant sense of self also, because I was ostracised for being too mature essentially very early on from mainstream development and peers, and got involved in an antisocial/criminal crowd very early on.

Well, that's not a whole lot of fun... maybe the deviance... fantasy...

OMFG... the evil dance...

I think our peers growing up have a big influence on what we become. especially if we regard them as family - because we lacked a sense of family at home - rather than just a phase

Sure... it's a delicate balance. The family at home...

I never felt like I was missing the family component though. I don't have it but I don't know how to want it. What happened instead is that I'd look at the relationships my friends had with their parents and be very confused and surprised. They'd actually tell them what they're up to, excluding some personal stuff sure, but I don't talk to mine at all. Or they'd talk to their siblings about their problems. That's all so weird. When people ask me about my brother who lives a few feet from I don't know his likes or dislikes or if he's dating, sometimes I don't even know his age. I'd have a few close friends who I'd go act on the antisocial impulses with, but they didn't know past whatever persona I used with them either and that's how it's been with everyone in my life. I'm not sure I even know how to drop the personas 100%.

Yurippe wrote:I never felt like I was missing the family component though.

I take it your family is very constrained, emotionally.

Yurippe wrote:I don't have it but I don't know how to want it. What happened instead is that I'd look at the relationships my friends had with their parents and be very confused and surprised.

Why? Normally families act different in front of company. It's the sitcoms that make up think otherwise perhaps.

Yurippe wrote:They'd actually tell them what they're up to, excluding some personal stuff sure, but I don't talk to mine at all. Or they'd talk to their siblings about their problems. That's all so weird.

I get asked the weirdest questions when company is over, too. New questions, I've never been asked before, and ones designed to shame, or ride me with guilt. So maybe it's not weird, for me anyways.

Yurippe wrote:When people ask me about my brother who lives a few feet from I don't know his likes or dislikes or if he's dating, sometimes I don't even know his age.

I wish I understood that one... I don't know the age of any of my siblings. Let alone my parents, or my own half the time. Really.

Yurippe wrote:I'd have a few close friends who I'd go act on the antisocial impulses with, but they didn't know past whatever persona I used with them either and that's how it's been with everyone in my life. I'm not sure I even know how to drop the personas 100%.

So that's a deviance from true self? You prefer conforming inside your emotionally contained families?

Big deal... you're attracted to "evil", for lacks of better terms.

I don't know these things, it's part asking, and part saying...

Anyways, I've spooked myself out with this post...

nresting toppic.

I'm not even sure what this thread is about anymore

I am attracted to a lot of people on face value. I could see an attractive member of society and go "Dayum."
But beyond that, I dunno. If I want someone to stick around, they need to have intelligence. I can NOT stand being around unintelligent people. It's boring.
Eh. I dunno. I actually think that I am more interested in the initial discovery of people. If I meet a very attractive person, and engage them, I tend to begin learning about them. As soon as the curiosity exhausts itself, I tend to get bored. I have yet to meet someone who can hold my interests indefinitely.
I kinda think that would be the end goal if I were to pick a mate. Attractive, intelligent, and interesting enough for me not to just get bored.

henrietta wrote:I personally think the psychopath is primal for sexual attraction. I am not talking about picked victims, I'm talking about seeing someone across the room and feeling sexual attraction. I think more often than not psychopaths are attracted to attractive, opposite gender people. Much like an animal.

I would have to agree. Also if I'm REALLY into a girl, the sex is very raw and visceral. Hot and sweaty. So yeah, primal. Animalistic.

I probably do turn away a lot of people if there is no physical attraction. However, if I'm attracted to a person and they have nothing but air between the ears, they won't last. So I'm curious...if there is no instant physical attraction, what would make you want to stick around to see what else is there? I'm sure you won't find out everything interesting about a person right away...

henrietta wrote:Attraction, pure sexual attraction. What sexually attracts the psychopath (male or female)? Is it primal, is it intellectual? And gender preference; even though a psychopath can easily not care about gender I think the end up in heterosexual relationships? Is that because of personal preference, because its easier, or because its primal.

I personally think the psychopath is primal for sexual attraction. I am not talking about picked victims, I'm talking about seeing someone across the room and feeling sexual attraction. I think more often than not psychopaths are attracted to attractive, opposite gender people. Much like an animal.

Wow. This is a really interesting topic.