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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Yurippe » Fri Dec 28, 2012 7:45 am

Not at all, but you saying it's true doesn't make it true either. Words are just opinions without scientifical evidence to back them up.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Mr. No One » Fri Dec 28, 2012 7:49 am

Yurippe wrote:Not at all, but you saying it's true doesn't make it true either. Words are just opinions without scientifical evidence to back them up.

I said my experience was a true story, big difference. I mean experiences form opinions, strong ones at that.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Yurippe » Fri Dec 28, 2012 7:57 am

Oh, ok, I guess if you finish with true story that's good enough! :D

Personally, I find all information to be subjective unless it's backed up with scientific method. I don't know the validity of the opinions of those people, nor do I know the method of questioning you used and whether it was standardized or not, nor do I know the validity of assessment in terms of the human population. I do believe however that you've had the experience of asking a few people and that they gave you those statements and that you formed that conclusion, that's your personal subjective experience and I can't deny it. Now, whether I agree with it or whether it applies to everyone, I don't have any reason to believe that without proper research.

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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby justonemoreperson » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:08 am

Mr. No One wrote:Homosexuality is contrived. Always has been.


That comment surprises me.

I think it's fairly well established that in most cases a person's sexuality is not by choice, a person doesn't choose what they're attracted to. The same applies to paedophiles; most of them hate themselves for wanting sex with kids; they can't help their wants and they have to help their actions. I'm not linking gays to kiddy-fiddlers, just using it as an example to show that sexual preference is not a contrived choice.

In fact, many people who are gay can spend years trying to hide the fact if they live in a social environment which forbids it.

Does this explain your view that it's contrived? We all know that god hates poofs, so is it part of your belief in god that makes you think that they decide to be gay? If they can't help it then god can't hold them accountable, but if they can help it then it can be a sin.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby seeminglyplain » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:27 am

justonemoreperson wrote:
Mr. No One wrote:Homosexuality is contrived. Always has been.


That comment surprises me.

I think it's fairly well established that in most cases a person's sexuality is not by choice, a person doesn't choose what they're attracted to. The same applies to paedophiles; most of them hate themselves for wanting sex with kids; they can't help their wants and they have to help their actions. I'm not linking gays to kiddy-fiddlers, just using it as an example to show that sexual preference is not a contrived choice.


I don't know what to think when it comes to homosexuality, it just doesn't seem logical to me, so I have always just assumed it was a chemical imbalance in the brain.

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There's a word I haven't heard in a while. When I was a kid, my cousin had a dog that if it got onto the neighbours property would rape the other male dogs. So everytime I was over their I used to let it out and watch my uncle chase it around calling it a "dirty poofter", it kept me amused for awhile.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby justonemoreperson » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:41 am

My first wife's oldest brother was gay and spent forty years trying to hide it. The family was deeply religious and saw being gay as a sin.
Occasionally they would find gay porn in his room or bag and he'd deny it, saying that he was being bullied in work and they were dumping the stuff in there as a joke.

Eventually he became really depressed and finally he ran away from home, although I'm not sure you can call it that when you're turning forty, and went to London. He finally wrote to his mother, who wasn't exactly a candidate for Mastermind, to explain his decision.

They were all shocked and I used the opportunity to point out all of the evidence that had been staring them in the face for years; and that it was their fault he left.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby seeminglyplain » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:47 am

Did the mother understand it after you explained it to her, or did she just keep the whole self delusion thing up?
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby justonemoreperson » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:50 am

seeminglyplain wrote:Did the mother understand it after you explained it to her, or did she just keep the whole self delusion thing up?


She couldn't deny it after that, especially after she had his letter. What she did then was try to look for excuses, reasons why it wasn't her fault. Stupid bitch.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby seeminglyplain » Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:02 am

justonemoreperson wrote:What she did then was try to look for excuses, reasons why it wasn't her fault. Stupid bitch.


I can sort of relate to that predicament with my parents. My parents were told by quite a few shrinks, parents of other kids, police, and teachers that something was different with me that needed to be further investigated, but they refused to listen. Even after I was evaluated as a child by two specialist shrinks, after I tried to kill my brother, they still refused to accept their diagnosis and accussed them of being frauds. I cant complain though because it helped me stay away from getting stuck with a label that would have followed me around for the rest of my life
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Glue » Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:35 am

Homosexuals are kind of like paedophiles. They have gone against nature, not logic, in their pursuit for sexual gratification. They both feel their unnatural urges are wrong and so bottle them up sometimes. The only difference is that homosexuals are well within their emotional rights to feel the way they feel.

Ever since the sexualizing of men/women became common place, men and women can easily be swayed to homosexual preference, if a man is attractive then another man might find him so, same with a woman. Is it so wrong that people indulge in the sex they want to have? Some men like large women, old women, interracial, women missing limbs, and yet here we have people hung up because two men or two women happen to be attracted to each other. if not them then they would have been with opposite gender people and feel the exact same way about them, so what is the issue? It goes against nature yes, so does contraception.

Paedophiles on the other hand, are burdened with sexual feelings that are just as "unnatural" as homosexuals feel. they have no reason to be sexually attracted to children, children are not sexualized in any way. And it's not as if paedophiles can seek out other paedophiles to satisfy their urges. So where is the logic here? It's simple, its not what they are attracted to its what they aren't

The question is if they are attracted to adults still? They may have urges for children but is it only children? They have lesser attractions for men or women? Sure they may not pursue them because they dont get as satisfied from them, much like porn addicts dont get turned on by regular porn when there is all the depraved tentacle rape they need to satisfy them.

Age is not as big a factor as gender however, which is why straight men won't suddenly feel attracted to men, because its being offered. So maybe it is psychological, women attracted to a woman because only a woman would understand her?
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