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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Gulchenrouz » Wed Jan 12, 2011 11:05 am

i would say the first one looks like mutton dressed as lamb, and the second one is or was a man.
ME? unmedicated severely emotionally disturbed rapid cycling bp2 with sociopathic tendencies and a side order of DID in the spank bank. you?
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Helix » Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:28 pm

henrietta wrote:Attraction, pure sexual attraction. What sexually attracts the psychopath (male or female)? Is it primal, is it intellectual?


I don't like so much the way the thread has been put, but I didn't want to start a new one, just to change few words. I like neither the word "psychopath" nor "pure sexual attraction". Whatever, I'm interested in what the rules of attractions are for other people here. I mean, what are the qualities that attract you most in a man/woman? Don't think of marriage or long-lasting relationships, don't think of "pure sexual attraction". Think of a one-day relationship, but one day worth a life.
I can't say exactly what attracts me most in a man. It's alchemy, impossible to separate the single components. When I was much younger, in my late teens/early twenties, the rules were simpler. As many young women, I believed in the Almighty Giant Dick and longed for an epiphany. But when at last it revealed itself, I realized it was not omnipotent. And became an atheist.. Now I could say that what keeps the components together, in my alchemy, is the ability of releasing control, at every level: intellectual, psychological, physical. Even though it might lead only to ... fall asleep.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby wooster » Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:38 pm

henrietta wrote:Attraction, pure sexual attraction. What sexually attracts the psychopath (male or female)? Is it primal, is it intellectual? And gender preference; even though a psychopath can easily not care about gender I think the end up in heterosexual relationships? Is that because of personal preference, because its easier, or because its primal.

I personally think the psychopath is primal for sexual attraction. I am not talking about picked victims, I'm talking about seeing someone across the room and feeling sexual attraction. I think more often than not psychopaths are attracted to attractive, opposite gender people. Much like an animal.


Intellectual = primal. For feck's sakes, in the XXIst century we should be a few clicks removed from primates so a protruding red arse won't cut the mustard anymore but sexy is defined rather by an alluring bone/skull/muscle-structure. (Yep, intellect shows up thataway too, however un-PC it may seem.)

Say, an attractive male:
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- attractive females:
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etc.


(LOL Henri, good old times... :D )
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Xena » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:10 am

Good looks, warmth, wit and compassion. A talent of some sort with the drive to be good at it, and the humility to pay it forward if the talent creates a net worth too large for 5 people to spend in several lifetimes. An ability to teach and care for others from a place of sincerity and respect.

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Note: Helix seemed interested in a cross section of nons, paths and other PDs, and attraction beyond just sex.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby brit_brat » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:11 am

OH MY GOD! Can we turn this into a pic thread? I say yes, I think I have the right. Let me check, yes, I have all the rights.
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Obsidian » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:13 am

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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby brit_brat » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:17 am

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oh, nice one obsidian. here's a similar!
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby Xena » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:22 am

@brit, I thought you were female :lol:
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby wooster » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:25 am

brit_brat wrote:Image
Hey that's me!!!!!!!!!!!! :!: . :twisted:
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Re: Rules of Attraction for a Psychopath

Postby brit_brat » Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:29 am

wooster wrote:Hey that's me!!!!!!!!!!!! :!: . :twisted:

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