Wanting people to fear you

Making people fear you? Now, why would you do that? No that is not the way to go my friend. Why would anyone want to be perceive as a dangerous, murdering psychotic with a huge red flag? When normal people(society) identifies fear, they try to protect and separate themselves from the subject of the fear. Society will then segregate and contain that which they fear. I can see no benefit in doing this.

Vivienne wrote:Oh quit the attention seeking. What a useless bag of skin and bones you present yourself to be with your carry-on about little stories of killing your parents.

"I guess. I'm not afraid of keeping the truth from her anymore." Liar! If you've been afraid of 'keeping the truth' you are not anti-social. An anti-social lives for their own benefit. The emotions of fear are rarely (if ever) present. They certainly will lie and put up a facet if it suits the situation, however an anti-social has little regard for the feelings or safety of others. You show otherwise.

"Give up on washing? No way. I would still need their money." You might want to re-read the diagnostic criteria for ASPD particularly impulsivity or failure to plan ahead. Try again, and try not to make yourself so fake next time. Looking to instill fear?

You're hopeless at it!

I believe that's called an ace.

Sunlight_hurts wrote:

Vivienne wrote:Oh quit the attention seeking. What a useless bag of skin and bones you present yourself to be with your carry-on about little stories of killing your parents.

"I guess. I'm not afraid of keeping the truth from her anymore." Liar! If you've been afraid of 'keeping the truth' you are not anti-social. An anti-social lives for their own benefit. The emotions of fear are rarely (if ever) present. They certainly will lie and put up a facet if it suits the situation, however an anti-social has little regard for the feelings or safety of others. You show otherwise.

"Give up on washing? No way. I would still need their money." You might want to re-read the diagnostic criteria for ASPD particularly impulsivity or failure to plan ahead. Try again, and try not to make yourself so fake next time. Looking to instill fear?

You're hopeless at it!

I believe that's called an ace.

Indeed. I have no external wants other than what causes my own personal satisfaction.

Sunlight_hurts wrote:Quite the opposite, my friend!


I want people to love me.

What do you mean by love? Don't give me unconditional positive regard bs. I am really intrigued when people say you feel warm & good inside when you love someone. Is that like eating soup?

Jeez, Vivienne, I have feelings too, in case you didn't know.

Nevertheless I shall justify myself. I am 100% certain now that nothing will happen to me when I tell the truth to the psychiatrist. I know she'll not get me committed or anything. You said the emotions of fear are rarely present. Well when I said I initially was afraid of revealing the truth, that was one of those rare moments. I was afraid I would be put in discomfort or something.

You're wrong. I do have little regard for the feelings or safety of others. Everytime I bend over my back trying to please them is when I know it'll benefit me. How have I shown otherwise? And the 'washing-still-need-their-money' line was a joke! I have other ways of getting their money! I'm not some fake wannabe psychopath, just trying to figure out what's normal behaviour and what's not.

If you must know I have lost the urge to make people fear me now. I just wanted to see if any of you have experienced it. I had thought it would let me use the people around me better, but the other ways are working jut fine. I'll go back to quietly slipping into my masks. So take that, Vivienne! So much for non-impusitivity!

You respond so easily when you are baited Justcold.

It benefits you nothing to justify yourself by stating your weaknesses.

"If you must know I have lost the urge to make people fear me now." You never had it.

Perhaps revise your attention seeking methods to appear less see through?

I'm rash and shamelessly hot-tempered, what are you going to say now?

I saw another thread here about that person's mask slipping off and how he was getting bored of faking emotions. That's pretty much what I'm trying to say too. I'm simply bored, no stimulation therefore I test the people around me.What I mentioned were my issues, this is a support forum. Can you say "support", Vivienne?

I did have the urge to make people fear me. Now it's gone. No anxiety disorder rubbish of any sort, or desperate need for attention. Nothing is or was fake, I completely fit in here though I'm not diagnosed, and I had a crazy urge to blow my secret. Due to boredom. So grow up.

Did any of you struggle with the "need for stimulation" part?

"I'm rash and shamelessly hot-tempered, what are you going to say now?" Why, I'm going to congratulate you for admitting this. Honesty isn't underrated with me.

If you require support learn to ask for it. All you have done is expose your desire to inflict harm on others. Supposedly you experience joy for the fear you instil. Support for what? Your desire to tell others you wish to kill them? Do you think you're remotely believable? Justify yourself! You can't.
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You now seek to change your story to encourage further attention.

The_King wrote:

Sunlight_hurts wrote:Quite the opposite, my friend!


I want people to love me.

What do you mean by love? Don't give me unconditional positive regard bs. I am really intrigued when people say you feel warm & good inside when you love someone. Is that like eating soup?

It has nothing to do with me loving others. I just want them to like me.


JustCold, stop while you're ahead mate!! You're diggin' yourself a hole over there.

Sunlight_hurts wrote:

The_King wrote:

Sunlight_hurts wrote:Quite the opposite, my friend!


I want people to love me.

What do you mean by love? Don't give me unconditional positive regard bs. I am really intrigued when people say you feel warm & good inside when you love someone. Is that like eating soup?

It has nothing to do with me loving others. I just want them to like me.


JustCold, stop while you're ahead mate!! You're diggin' yourself a hole over there.

So what is the difference between love and like? Don't say love is just an extreme form of like, since we haven't establish a clear working meaning of like that answer would be a cop out.

What do you like and why? As in what motivates you?