Wanting people to fear you

I'm down for any fun, sweetling.

The_King wrote:Come on now, women are inherently emotional hence very illogical. To them it is the gina tingles that really matter, why do you think thugs, serial killers and other degenerates get laid? There's a theory that the female brain confuses the emotion of arousal with fear.

I think this begs the question...what the ###$ are you talking about? That fear makes women aroused? Or that women like to "fix broken people"? Both of those are a giant "no $#%^".

The_King wrote:Anyways, does anyone here have a phobia? Or maybe a case of anxiety? I really have no clue when people experience or talk about anxiety. Would appreciate some insight.

I have an irrational fear of hospitals but I'm pretty sure I'm over it now. It wasn't anxiety but more like, they made me incredibly paranoid.

kanin wrote:

The_King wrote:Come on now, women are inherently emotional hence very illogical. To them it is the gina tingles that really matter, why do you think thugs, serial killers and other degenerates get laid? There's a theory that the female brain confuses the emotion of arousal with fear.

I think this begs the question...what the ###$ are you talking about? That fear makes women aroused? Or that women like to "fix broken people"? Both of those are a giant "no $#%^".

The_King wrote:Anyways, does anyone here have a phobia? Or maybe a case of anxiety? I really have no clue when people experience or talk about anxiety. Would appreciate some insight.

I have an irrational fear of hospitals but I'm pretty sure I'm over it now. It wasn't anxiety but more like, they made me incredibly paranoid.

Actually women get most aroused when they feel a variety of intense emotions, since they equate that with excitement and fun. Fear is probably the strongest emotion though.

Fix broken people? No tuna cat! Why do you think women occupy most of the caring health and lower educational jobs? They can't help but to nurse everyone, which is also the main reason why they vote blue and pink.

Salvia is an trouble sum drug to write on.

Paranoid? As in getting caught? Did you have the same type of fear in a mental institution or a shrink's office? I also dislike hospitals, they smell like death.

The_King wrote:Fix broken people? No tuna cat! Why do you think women occupy most of the caring health and lower educational jobs? They can't help but to nurse everyone, which is also the main reason why they vote blue and pink.

Salvia is an trouble sum drug to write on.

Paranoid? As in getting caught? Did you have the same type of fear in a mental institution or a shrink's office? I also dislike hospitals, they smell like death.

Hey, I always get my goddamn tuna. Also, why do you think I said it was a giant "no $#%^"?

Why are you writing about Salvia? Better question, if you're on Salvia, why are you wasting it on the internets?

No, paranoid as in everyone's out to get me. Rarely have I actually done anything wrong when visiting a hospital. Except that one time with my drunk schizo friend who OD'd. Then it was that kind of paranoia. Shrinks I'm fine with and I've never been near a mental institution so I wouldn't know if it's any different.

Generalisations are dangerous The. You create your own blindness with them. I find many use these as a training process to determine how to respond to unfamiliar situations one has had little exposure to. Shall I assume you have had little experience with women aside from those who were aroused by fear?

I generalise now. I know little of you to know if your pejorative remarks are serious or said in jest.

'Actually women get most aroused when they feel a variety of intense emotions, since they equate that with excitement and fun. Fear is probably the strongest emotion though. '

Is it? Emotions vary minute by minute depending on their intensity.

There can be no objective scale defining one particular emotion as being stronger or weaker than others as this all comes down to a matter of degree. The strength of an emotion is determined by an individuals relative experience. Some will tell you love is the strongest, others say anger and the list continues.

In my case fear is often the easiest to instill in another as it requires little effort. The strongest emotion I have ever experienced is anger. What is it in your case?

kanin wrote:No, paranoid as in everyone's out to get me. Rarely have I actually done anything wrong when visiting a hospital. Except that one time with my drunk schizo friend who OD'd. Then it was that kind of paranoia. Shrinks I'm fine with and I've never been near a mental institution so I wouldn't know if it's any different.

Lol Kanin,

Well in my view the beauty of paranoia is that it creates intense minded individuals who are unlikely to ever be thwarted by an enemy or situation that could impose some level of harm.

The greatest enemy for the paranoid has always been their own mind.

A game of gifts and curses.

Vivienne wrote:Generalisations are dangerous The. You create your own blindness with them. I find many use these as a training process to determine how to respond to unfamiliar situations one has had little exposure to. Shall I assume you have had little experience with women aside from those who were aroused by fear?

I generalise now. I know little of you to know if your pejorative remarks are serious or said in jest.

'Actually women get most aroused when they feel a variety of intense emotions, since they equate that with excitement and fun. Fear is probably the strongest emotion though. '

Is it? Emotions vary minute by minute depending on their intensity.

There can be no objective scale defining one particular emotion as being stronger or weaker than others as this all comes down to a matter of degree. The strength of an emotion is determined by an individuals relative experience. Some will tell you love is the strongest, others say anger and the list continues.

In my case fear is often the easiest to instill in another as it requires little effort. The strongest emotion I have ever experienced is anger. What is it in your case?

I thought attraction was based on fear and respect? If you didn't submit to the man, it would be unnatural to femininity wouldn't it? No women is attracted to men they can walk over and not respect. Part of being respected is fear of the consequences.

My remarks are always enigmatic. What you choose to do with them is entirely up to you.

Yes there is actually. We can measure the strength of emotion based on the reaction it causes in the body and mind. Fear is so strong that it can cause PTSD, blacking out and shock! It's like deer in the headlights, it loses its ability to even survive by physically moving away to avoid the car.

Oh well, I have no clue what you mean by emotion. What do you experience when you feel anger? What does it do within the body? Does it raise heart rate, make you blush and sweat?

I suppose the most common is anger, but that only becomes a problem when I drink or do too much stimulants.

The_King wrote:

Sunlight_hurts wrote:

Vivienne wrote:My mother is a police officer, Sunlight_hurts. When one visits the exact location to 'help out' on numerous occasions suspicion is minimal. My attempts to contact my father have been entirely fruitless though as you can imagine. She has deliberately disposed or secured any possible means I could use to find his details. She forbids mention of it, and when I mention it anyhow the fights begin.

You can imagine my childhood. My darling over-controlling mother would insist on knowing the details of any acquaintances I came across. She would run background checks on family histories and forbid me from speaking to certain people altogether.

Oh, I had a very happy childhood. : ) Do not mistake this. Happy, but restrained. I am now free of such restraints.

How convenient, a murderer for a father, and a police office for a mother. She must not be very bright, to marry a murderer, and i hope she was smart enough to figure the more she made your father "unaccessable" the more likely you would end up as you have. Apparently not though! Look at you now.. all grown up, quite nicely, i might add. ^_^

Oh, the wonders of shaping our children to be exactly what we don't want... the loving creation of poor parenting.

Come on now, women are inherently emotional hence very illogical. To them it is the gina tingles that really matter, why do you think thugs, serial killers and other degenerates get laid? There's a theory that the female brain confuses the emotion of arousal with fear.

I don't think psychopaths want people to fear them... not really productive to blending in. All they want is to satisfy their ego and other needs, it is just convenient to use fear.

Anyways, does anyone here have a phobia? Or maybe a case of anxiety? I really have no clue when people experience or talk about anxiety. Would appreciate some insight.

Fun fact King, i'm not sure how true it is, but i read someone a while ago, some Ph.D supposes Psychopaths are actually Hyper-anxious. As in(very very very anxiety ridden, just a different type of anxiety.. emotionless anxiety, per se), that's why they're commonly refered to as "Very smart". It's not necessarily that they're smart, just that they take every possible outcome into consideration before doing so. Mind you, that could be said about a lot of people that AREN'T psychopaths, and i'm sure that doesn't apply to all psychopaths.

That sounds kinda silly though. could just be chopped up to paranoia.

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Fun fact King, i'm not sure how true it is, but i read someone a while ago, some Ph.D supposes Psychopaths are actually Hyper-anxious. As in(very very very anxiety ridden, just a different type of anxiety.. emotionless anxiety, per se), that's why they're commonly refered to as "Very smart". It's not necessarily that they're smart, just that they take every possible outcome into consideration before doing so. Mind you, that could be said about a lot of people that AREN'T psychopaths, and i'm sure that doesn't apply to all psychopaths.

That sounds kinda silly though. could just be chopped up to paranoia.[/quote]

Physical effects of anxiety may include heart palpitations, muscle weakness and tension, fatigue, nausea, chest pain, shortness of breath, stomach aches, or headaches. The body prepares to deal with a threat: blood pressure and heart rate are increased, sweating is increased, blood flow to the major muscle groups is increased, and immune and digestive system functions are inhibited (the fight or flight response). External signs of anxiety may include pale skin, sweating, trembling, and pupillary dilation.

Sounds like taking stimulants. Well I guess I am not a psychopath then since I have no clue when you mean anxiety. Phew, thank me I am completely normal.

I think the Ph.D was just using "Anxiety" as a reference term. He was more speaking of the boost in alertness, raise in heart rate, blood pressure, etc. I believe he even worded it as, "Anxiety without the bad parts".