Ego is nice, but there's better pleasures..

Sensitive people have respect. I greatly enjoy their company.

Seili wrote:Sensitive people have respect. I greatly enjoy their company.

Could be said they are just as ego driven.

I was with a girl that had 5 sphynxes that would watch during sex, was like being ogled by Gollum times five jerking off in the bushes over the One Ring.

Honestly though, an orgasm isolated from all other variables is nothing more glamorous than an amplified sneeze. You build up all this tension over time, these little bug bites that, with the orgasm, disappear in an instant. It's like taking a piss and going, "that felt pretty good." It feels good because it relieves tension, which is what pleasure is. Everything else surrounding it is your ego fetishizing.

Siegfried wrote:Honestly though, an orgasm isolated from all other variables is nothing more glamorous than an amplified sneeze. You build up all this tension over time, these little bug bites that, with the orgasm, disappear in an instant. It's like taking a piss and going, "that felt pretty good." It feels good because it relieves tension, which is what pleasure is.

That's like thinking of food as raw material for fecal matter. Blowing you must be like being forced to suck a flavorless popsicle down to the stick in 60 seconds.

Everything else surrounding it is your ego fetishizing.

That's actually what makes orgasms so good. Try tethering your ego to your dick - I know for a fact that at least one of them is dysfunctionally oversized.

I think at it's best it's all very pleasurable. Shared fantasies, teasing in text, teasing irl, eye contact, their smell, taste, the hours of kissing, playing with different locations and positions, just playing. And of course the act itself requires some repetition. Cuddling, sleeping together etc. It all feels so good.

Oblivion wrote:

Siegfried wrote:Honestly though, an orgasm isolated from all other variables is nothing more glamorous than an amplified sneeze. You build up all this tension over time, these little bug bites that, with the orgasm, disappear in an instant. It's like taking a piss and going, "that felt pretty good." It feels good because it relieves tension, which is what pleasure is.

That's like thinking of food as raw material for fecal matter. Blowing you must be like being forced to suck a flavorless popsicle down to the stick in 60 seconds.

Everything else surrounding it is your ego fetishizing.

That's actually what makes orgasms so good. Try tethering your ego to your dick - I know for a fact that at least one of them is dysfunctionally oversized.

It can taste like a menstrual-puke smoothie for all I care, I'm not gonna be sucking it, despite failed attempts in my teens that nearly left me with a broken neck

Not what I meant: you've heard it before: the brain is the primary sex organ. When you separate the two, you're left with an empty physical reaction. Passionless orgasms can be annoying, even painful, as any male sex worker will tell you. The ladies can get away with faking it.

As you've told many of your customers, I'm sure.

This isnt sh!t that runs through my mind while I'm f ucking a bitch, obviously. In these pauses of life, I like to reflect in honesty on the mechanical nature of life. Before I go back to doing my stupid sh!t and forget all about what I've just said. I have no problems deriving pleasure from sex, but thanks.

Siegfried wrote:As you've told many of your customers, I'm sure.

That would have ruined my tips.