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Who Should Our New Moderator Be?

Reaper, because you rock!
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4%
Reaper
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4%
Reaps
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Someone else, anyone else, seriously...
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17%
Jomp
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8%
xdude
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No votes
Reaper
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ZeroZ
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Saucygril13
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A lurker
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33%
 
Total votes : 24

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 7:38 pm

solemnlysworn wrote:
xdude wrote:What I do see is that for all the talk here about being tough, there is no group who gets their feelings hurt more then this group, hence the special rules to protect them.


It’s pretty well documented that antisocial orientations have a mistrust of authority. Put that together with somebody who flails emotionally then threatens to tear down everything because they got butthurt and yeah they’re going to be annoyed with that authority.


Get that, and it's a wise position to question authority for sure.

I do it myself, so cannot hold that against anyone here either.

There is a forum to be run, by volunteers, but I do not hold that against anyone here who questions mod motives. It is fair to do so, and makes sense.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Sarandipity » Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:06 pm

I saw I got two off the cuff mentions. It'd be like this in my head: "I like that guy" "I hate him, ban him" *banned *unbanned *made moderator *banned *unbanned *hack guy *feel guilty about hacking *get caught removing worms *go to jail *smuggle in phone to keep badly moderating forum *can't use a fluffy pinky bunny in jail to hide contraband like in a mental hospital *terrorises cell mate to hide contraband

So if I'm going down I'm taking you all with me :lol: DW I can't hack, I got carried away with myself :lol:
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby cinnamoncookie » Tue Oct 22, 2019 9:25 pm

Fool wrote:cc and reaper should co-mod


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBkT19uH2RQ

:lol:

Btw re:not being listed, I’m disappointed and slightly offended and did you really not even want to know how many votes I could get

You even listed z what the ###$ Reaper
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Reaper » Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:08 pm

xdude wrote:I am being honest with you all, we have bent over backwards to give special rules to 10 or 12 of you, who honestly believe your feelings matter more then everyone else. That cannot go on.


You start getting stricter on the rules here and you're really going to have a problem on your hands. For the most part we haven't had too many problems here. You get your nuts kicked a few times by a member or two and suddenly everything's a big fuking issue with you now.

Don't take your shlt out on the entire forum. If you can't handle your job here then that's on you. Maybe it's time you fuk off and let someone else do it who can actually handle this type of environment.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Fool » Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:19 pm

DaturaInnoxia wrote:You're the only person on this website that I've come across that actually disgusts me in regards to their behaviors.


sorta agree

monk's persona is obnoxious but she seems to settle with individuals after a while...

xdude only seems interested in antagonizing people into banning them so he can make a point no one can even begin to care about. it is delightful to think this place is driving him to these "extremes" and has influenced him so much, when he isn't even paid to moderate it in the first place lol. definitely a welcome change, despite what he may belief =)

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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby solemnlysworn » Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:27 pm

I didn’t want to mention it publicly but the manner in which monk was banned and then it was given a whole thread seemed particularly distasteful.

That they were banned may not be an issue in of itself (though the reason being inciting others to legal action seems precarious) but the hand waving demonstration of making an example seems to be no more than a power trip to reassert himself as superior. It’s crass and not the proper way to deal with these things.

I’ve received warnings for talking about bans publicly. Again, an example of hypocrisy and self-serving rule selection. Dude’s conduct certainly has not demonstrated how things like this ought to be handled. The slimy push for his agenda in removing the sub forum immediately afterwards is just contemptible, essentially trying to hold everybody hostage to his ego.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Sarandipity » Tue Oct 22, 2019 11:28 pm

solemnlysworn wrote:I didn’t want to mention it publicly but the manner in which monk was banned and then it was given a whole thread seemed particularly distasteful.

That they were banned may not be an issue in of itself (though the reason being inciting others to legal action seems precarious) but the hand waving demonstration of making an example seems to be no more than a power trip to reassert himself as superior. It’s crass and not the proper way to deal with these things.

I’ve received warnings for talking about bans publicly. Again, an example of hypocrisy and self-serving rule selection. Dude’s conduct certainly has not demonstrated how things like this ought to be handled. The slimy push for his agenda in removing the sub forum immediately afterwards is just contemptible, essentially trying to hold everybody hostage to his ego.


I thought it was odd to publicly state a ban but then I supposed it was to get a point across that firstly behaviour wasn't tolerated and that they were listening to complaints about that particular user.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Siegfried » Wed Oct 23, 2019 12:35 pm

I for one salute Reaper as our new overlord.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby HSS » Wed Oct 23, 2019 1:44 pm

As a first option, I would prefer someone that doesn't post here - somebody stable and balanced - 'cause I hope he would be an impartial observer.

Between users, yes I like Sarandipity, but I am not totally sure if she/he/they (:lol:) can handle this forum and its dynamics. Vcrpamphlet, solemnlysworn could be good too.

Btw: not sure if I have the "right" to vote here, considered that I haven't the disorder. Count or ignore my vote, as you prefer.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Reaper » Wed Oct 23, 2019 3:15 pm

HSS wrote:Btw: not sure if I have the "right" to vote here, considered that I haven't the disorder. Count or ignore my vote, as you prefer.


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