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Who Should Our New Moderator Be?

Reaper, because you rock!
1
4%
Reaper
1
4%
Reaps
3
13%
Someone else, anyone else, seriously...
4
17%
Jomp
2
8%
xdude
0
No votes
Reaper
0
No votes
ZeroZ
0
No votes
Saucygril13
5
21%
A lurker
8
33%
 
Total votes : 24

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:01 pm

Then it is all good.

Carry on with those discussions that are not tolerated in real life, no matter how harsh.

A troll is gone.

I hope, but pointlessly that personal attacks die down (pointless hope for sure :) )

And the rest will work itself out.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:02 pm

???

w.e dude.

lol.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:09 pm

I am sure the AsPD types here will be fine.

Fighting for you all to keep this forum, because there are many good conversations here, minus the noise, but the essence of what AsPD is about is here. Good convos on that topic.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Fool » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:10 pm

xdude wrote:It is the AsPD forum, and yet mods and others have to dance around the feelings of those with AsPD on every level, because people with AsPD may lose it and go ballistic.

That is the reality.

It says a lot about where self-esteem exists and where it does not. So can we get on with truths?




do you think you are an effective moderator here?

i think you are a valuable asset to the sub forum, largely because you get special attention because of being a moderator...everyone wants a piece, you know? stuff just explodes when you're about...but i do not know if you are an effective moderator...

i do believe people would prefer you to stay, but that could just be me. =)

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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:11 pm

fool is right we want u to stay.

nom nom nom.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:17 pm

I think the site has bent over backwards to accommodate a handful of people on the AsPD forum, and they don't appreciate it, and complain we don't do more. We have let the rules slide for a few special few.

If this is news, it is because no other moderator has written it before, but it is what they thought.

So what happens next?

Like I wrote early on, I am not going to be manipulated, so the 10 or 12 regs here, why again are we making special rules just for you few?
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:30 pm

DaturaInnoxia wrote:3) Your behaviour here the last couple of days indicates that you are not safe to be working with anyone vulnerable.



Seriously FFS, you all attack each others and others if we allowed it constantly, and you are playing the vulnerability card? Manipulation 101. If this forum remains, that bs has to stop.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:32 pm

im over it dude.

ur a broken record.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:35 pm

saucygirl31 wrote:im over it dude.

ur a broken record.


No problem but something has to change here. Change is never appealing.
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Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby DaturaInnoxia » Tue Oct 22, 2019 6:36 pm

xdude wrote:
DaturaInnoxia wrote:3) Your behaviour here the last couple of days indicates that you are not safe to be working with anyone vulnerable.



Seriously FFS, you all attack each others and others if we allowed it constantly, and you are playing the vulnerability card? Manipulation 101. If this forum remains, that bs has to stop.


Hypocrite.

xdude wrote:But also that makes me Dad.  And others the petulant children


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xdude wrote:The attacks on each other need to go


xdude wrote:... put aside the childish snark remarks?  That is on you all.


^ as a start.

I was just about to ask you what triggered this reaction in you and what triggered you to be going on about making exceptions, but I'm done. You're the only person on this website that I've come across that actually disgusts me in regards to their behaviors.
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