Our partner

Moderator Position Vacant?

Antisocial Personality Disorder message board, open discussion, and online support group.
Forum rules
Attention Please. The AsPD FORUM IS CLOSED.

The AsPD forum is closed for an indefinite period of time pending discussion of member usage, and relevance of the forum, and for revision of the forum's policies. We ask that you NOT to take AsPD threads and discussions into other forums here. This will result in being permanently banned from the forums and will only result to a longer period of forum locking or a permanent shut down. Please respect the safe spaces that those forums represent for other members here.

The Team

Who Should Our New Moderator Be?

Reaper, because you rock!
1
4%
Reaper
1
4%
Reaps
3
13%
Someone else, anyone else, seriously...
4
17%
Jomp
2
8%
xdude
0
No votes
Reaper
0
No votes
ZeroZ
0
No votes
Saucygril13
5
21%
A lurker
8
33%
 
Total votes : 24

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Seppy » Tue Oct 22, 2019 3:59 pm

I'm ngl sarandipity might be a nice choice.

Saucy for the meme tho
Diagnosis is a label that sticks with you for your entire life.
Seppy
Consumer 5
Consumer 5
 
Posts: 133
Joined: Sat Dec 09, 2017 2:48 pm
Local time: Thu Jun 26, 2025 12:02 am
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby Fool » Tue Oct 22, 2019 4:33 pm

cc and reaper should co-mod


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBkT19uH2RQ
"Kindly let me help before you drown" said the monkey, lifting the fish into the tree.
User avatar
Fool
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1329
Joined: Tue Apr 03, 2012 2:49 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:39 pm

Dear Reaper,

You have been issued a (1 pt) expiring infraction for the following post:

Reaper wrote:Delusional my ass. Now you're really walking in bullshlt territory.

I know exactly what I am.


The post - at this URL (antisocial-personality/topic214855.html) - may have been removed.

This warning was issued to you by Moderation Staff for the following reason:

Delusional behavior.



Please follow our rules in future,

Regards,
Moderation Staff
- ur gril saucy
User avatar
saucygirl31
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1658
Joined: Sat Sep 15, 2018 2:12 am
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 7:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:39 pm

Are you all done feeling sorry for yourselves and your hurt feelings here?

13 years working with AsPD types taught me one thing. Nobody feels more wronged then sociopaths if they get their feelings hurt. Hurting others feelings though, that is cool. That is what the disorder is about. The inability to face what people with AsPD do harms others.

So lets see if we can get back on track. The truth was written. Complain, whine, not fair, nothing new. You must have heard this before I wrote it?
We do NOT delete posts

Read the forum rules before posting here. If you are having any doubts about what you are posting, if you are thinking in the back of your mind, "I am going to want to delete this, or these details, later", remove those details, or step back and don't post until you are sure.
xdude
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 8662
Joined: Thu Dec 23, 2010 3:41 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 6:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:41 pm

xdude wrote:Hurting others feelings though, that is cool.


can u explain?
- ur gril saucy
User avatar
saucygirl31
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1658
Joined: Sat Sep 15, 2018 2:12 am
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 7:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:45 pm

saucygirl31 wrote:
xdude wrote:Hurting others feelings though, that is cool.


can u explain?


The ego meter, everyone has one too.

Okay to be fair, I worked with those sociopaths for 13 years because I also knew they had suffered a deep harm to their self esteem, so had to react. Empathy 101. Can relate.

Real sociopaths have been deeply harmed, and get that. They are actually cool people if you can get past it.

Psychopaths, maybe not, maybe just how their brain is wired.
We do NOT delete posts

Read the forum rules before posting here. If you are having any doubts about what you are posting, if you are thinking in the back of your mind, "I am going to want to delete this, or these details, later", remove those details, or step back and don't post until you are sure.
xdude
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 8662
Joined: Thu Dec 23, 2010 3:41 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 6:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:48 pm

ya, every action has a reaction, ur right. and congrats for getting those reactions.

but what im asking is whos feelings got hurt? (aside from obviously ours, right?)

is this over the whole manners leaving situation that u tried to explain to me?
- ur gril saucy
User avatar
saucygirl31
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1658
Joined: Sat Sep 15, 2018 2:12 am
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 7:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby xdude » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:50 pm

It is the AsPD forum, and yet mods and others have to dance around the feelings of those with AsPD on every level, because people with AsPD may lose it and go ballistic.

That is the reality.

It says a lot about where self-esteem exists and where it does not. So can we get on with truths?
We do NOT delete posts

Read the forum rules before posting here. If you are having any doubts about what you are posting, if you are thinking in the back of your mind, "I am going to want to delete this, or these details, later", remove those details, or step back and don't post until you are sure.
xdude
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 8662
Joined: Thu Dec 23, 2010 3:41 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 6:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby saucygirl31 » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:51 pm

dude why do u keep insisting on saying the same thing on repeat.

again, im asking whos feelings got hurt, bcuz imo we did nothing wrong in that regard.

name one person who complained, other than u.
- ur gril saucy
User avatar
saucygirl31
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1658
Joined: Sat Sep 15, 2018 2:12 am
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 7:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Moderator Position Vacant?

Postby DaturaInnoxia » Tue Oct 22, 2019 5:58 pm

xdude wrote:13 years working with AsPD types


1) Liar.

2) Just because people dont fit a Hollywood or Quora description of ASPD doesn't mean that they're the ones that are fake

This is why you should never trust people who have no opinions other than being overly agreeable.

They shift to their second face becoming generic AF
"The actor who wants to run the whole show: is forever trying to arrange the lights, the ballet, the scenery and the rest of the players in his own way. If his arrangements would only stay put, if only people would do as he wishes, the show would be great. Everybody, including himself, would be pleased. Life would be wonderful. In trying to make these arrangements our actor may sometimes be quite virtuous. He may be kind, considerate, patient, generous; even modest and self-sacrificing. On the other hand, he may be mean, egotistical, selfish and dishonest. But, as with most humans, he is more likely to have varied traits.

    What usually happens? The show doesn't come off very well. He begins to think life doesn't treat him right. He decides to exert himself some more. He becomes, on the next occasion, still more demanding or gracious, as the case may be. Still the play does not suit him. Admitting he may be somewhat at fault, he is sure that other people are more to blame. He becomes angry, indignant, self-pitying. What is his basic trouble? Is he not really a self-seeker even when trying to be kind? Is he not a victim of the delusion that he can wrest satisfaction and happiness out of this world if he only manages well? Is it not evident to all the rest of the players that these are the things he wants? And do not his actions make each of them wish to retaliate, snatching all they can get out of the show? Is he not, even in his best moments, a producer of confusion rather than harmony?"
-AA Big Book

3) Your behaviour here the last couple of days indicates that you are not safe to be working with anyone vulnerable.

Ever.
You show, by far, the least amount of integrity here.

- and why I cannot stand borderline-narcissists no matter how lowgrade they are.

They are by far the most damaging humans there are and they go on to spawn other cluster B's - often including the types you are condescending upon right now.
User avatar
DaturaInnoxia
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 1425
Joined: Thu Jul 05, 2018 5:21 am
Local time: Wed Jun 25, 2025 3:02 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

PreviousNext

Return to Antisocial Personality Disorder Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 23 guests