xdude wrote:13 years working with AsPD types
1) Liar.
2) Just because people dont fit a Hollywood or Quora description of ASPD doesn't mean that they're the ones that are fake
This is why you should never trust people who have no opinions other than being overly agreeable.
They shift to their second face becoming generic AF
"The actor who wants to run the whole show: is forever trying to arrange the lights, the ballet, the scenery and the rest of the players in his own way.
If his arrangements would only stay put, if only people would do as he wishes, the show would be great. Everybody, including himself, would be pleased. Life would be wonderful.
In trying to make these arrangements our actor may sometimes be quite virtuous. He may be kind, considerate, patient, generous; even modest and self-sacrificing. On the other hand, he may be mean, egotistical, selfish and dishonest. But, as with most humans, he is more likely to have varied traits.
What usually happens? The show doesn't come off very well. He begins to think life doesn't treat him right. He decides to exert himself some more. He becomes, on the next occasion, still more demanding or gracious, as the case may be. Still the play does not suit him.
Admitting he may be somewhat at fault, he is sure that other people are more to blame. He becomes angry, indignant, self-pitying. What is his basic trouble? Is he not really a self-seeker even when trying to be kind? Is he not a victim of the delusion that he can wrest satisfaction and happiness out of this world if he only manages well? Is it not evident to all the rest of the players that these are the things he wants? And do not his actions make each of them wish to retaliate, snatching all they can get out of the show?
Is he not, even in his best moments, a producer of confusion rather than harmony?"-AA Big Book
3) Your behaviour here the last couple of days indicates that you are not safe to be working with anyone vulnerable.
Ever.
You show, by far, the least amount of integrity here.
- and why I cannot stand borderline-narcissists no matter how lowgrade they are.
They are by far the most damaging humans there are and they go on to spawn other cluster B's - often including the types you are condescending upon right now.