Are there people you are completely different around?

salles wrote:who do not like cats and say nasty things about cats in my presence

Right. This happened recently and then this person also addressed females as whores, as aside of a joke, of course. I could already tell this person was an asshole, who even blurts out something like that in an working environment. I don't get it why and how these people always seem to have girls as groupies. Laughing at their awful jokes and just taking their degrading attitude like giggling school girls. Ugh.

They don't like cats, that was it, I knew it!

who do not like cats and say nasty things about cats in my presence

Felines with 4 paws and fur = No problem
Humans pretending to be felines = Fked in the Head. Kick to the head if the opportunity presents.

How does someone pretend to be a cat?

Like an idiot.

Seili wrote:How does someone pretend to be a cat?

with difficulty.

ShaolinMonk wrote:Kick to the head if the opportunity presents.

It does sound like you justify and base your own poor behavior with something invented. Simultaneously accusing others of immorality.

Although your own behavior is objectively immoral (violence, revenge) and these justifications only appear as something entitled.

There is no way for people to take such behavior very seriously.

Yes. I learnt with "normal" people you have to tip toe round them like they are delicate flowers. When learning to drive the instructor said "I want to move away but I feel like I should finishing teaching you to drive first" I said "you don't owe me anything and not to be rude they'll give me another instructor" he said "but I have to give a months notice" I said "you owe them people nothing blah blah" Anyway he quit that day and was not seen again, we had a new instructor. The host fancied the first instructor so it was better all round that he quit.

So you have to tip toe round them like they're delicate flowers or they will pretty much do anything.

Sarandipity wrote:I learnt with "normal" people you have to tip toe round them like they are delicate flowers.

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So you have to tip toe round them like they're delicate flowers or they will pretty much do anything.

you said this twice. was one coming from two different ppl? was paul and the secretary on the same page after he annihilated her? are u close to forcing the merge?

Most people are different with different people.

I'm usually quiet or even shy. With family, if angry, this whole section of our building can hear me yell.
Doesn't happen that often, but it can happen.

Once again I rattle on about context.

Who doesn't compartmentalize and is different depending on what circle they are engaging with?
That is common manners and social awareness that children are taught very young.

Don't masturbate in public, do that in your bedroom. Don't hug strangers like you hug your parents. You can kiss your boyfriend but don't kiss your dad on the mouth. Compartmentalizing and showing different faces is not only normal it is a bare minimum requirement of being social.

If someone treats waiting in a bank queue like the privacy of their bedroom or treats a stranger like their spouse or treats their friend like a stranger, it leads to awkwardness or harm.

Trying to be universally "one" person is the same futility as trying to exist in a vacuum; yet people seem to try to convince that they should be one person, and actually are one person, while also being expected to be social and having manners.

weird.