What do you admire in someone?

And what do you not like in people?
Which sex do you "like" best?

i admire someone who can admit their own faults

i think it's stupid when people project, though i can hardly say it bothers me. more so just gives me insight into their psyche

i like both males and females who are not "mainstream" or too engulfed in their gender role

I admire women with big breasts and a "can do attitude" if you catch my drift.

GadSitar wrote:I admire women with big breasts and a "can do attitude" if you catch my drift.

what brings you here?

Only occasionally do I ever admire anyone. Usually because I wish I was more like that. Like our old apartment manager was the biggest bitch I've ever met.

I want to be a huge bitch like that. Never seen anybody quite like that in my life.

I appreciate people who try to think beyond their conditioning.

justonemoreperson wrote:I appreciate people who try to think beyond their conditioning.

To expand on this: anyone who goes against the grain, because the grain is a means to an end...the penultimate end of a flawed species which has no business being on top of the food chain.

People who are aware that their actions are usually the result of a faulty system of emotional response.

People who are at peace with themselves, even if they're a complete mess.

Those who are courteous and receptive to courtesy.

...which leaves out pretty much most of the human race.

So, dogs.

justonemoreperson wrote:I appreciate people who try to think beyond their conditioning.

I resonate with that to be honest.

I was conditioned to be religious and broke free from religion even though all of my family is pretty dogmatic. I did a lot of questioning and digging deep within myself to unravel this conditioning. Not saying religion is bad but the sheepish ways in which people follow it by the book. My grandma still wants me to go back to worshiping Allah but I staunchly refuse. I don't want to pray and I see Muhammad for the psychopath manipulator he was. It's all politics and interestingly enough, I do have mad respect for the guy. I just don't want to be a sheep of his ideology.

I was also raised to be a beta bitch serf and broke free from that. I was always contrarian and questioned authority where most people my age simply accepted it. This meant I received a lot of disrespect from my family for being so "ungrateful" when my father was only masturbating his own need to have a dependent person under him to bolster his ego. I saw through that BS a long time ago.

I find it hard to have admiration for people but I do always look for something good that I can at least latch onto.

I like people who work hard and find ways to overcome difficulties.

Anyone who can overcome overwhelming odds stacked against them. People who can keep composure when everything isn’t going perfectly for them and not get full on hysterical

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I don’t like people who follow along in life taking step after step because it’s how it’s supposed to be. I also don’t care for big mouths, or the grandiose variety of Narcissist