Getting the Feels for Women

CopyCat27 wrote:How's your love life if we can call it that?

My love life is fine. I don't really get infatuated, though I have repeatedly tried to. But I don't think infatuation as necessary to have a decent sex life. I have a girlfriend, we live together, been together for a couple months already, we have a lot of sex, she's hot and fun and a bit kinky, and a bit of a clean freak which both annoys the hell out of me and is convenient as hell at the same time

Love and sex are not even remotely related in my mind. I love my daughters, esp my older one. I ###$ my girlfriends, cause I find them hot and sexy. I understand there is supposed to be a relation between love and sex/lovers/gfs, but I just don't get it

xSid wrote:
Love and sex are not even remotely related in my mind. I love my daughters, esp my older one. I ###$ my girlfriends, cause I find them hot and sexy. I understand there is supposed to be a relation between love and sex/lovers/gfs, but I just don't get it

It's occurred to me that love is based on need. The more we need someone else, the more we'll attach to them and the deeper the emotional connection.

Instinctively, we 'need' our children, to the extent that they represent the continuation of our seed. Many animals demonstrate behaviour that replicates love for their children, so we know that the 'symptoms' of love can exist without it.

If all you need from a relationship is sex, then there really is no reason to make an emotional connection beyond that.

I experience deep, obsessive infatuation at first. I am in that stage right now. I want her around all of the time because she validates me. I can easily attract, date, and copulate with women, but what I crave is the connection. And I don't know if it is possible for me to form a lasting, meaningful connection.