Playing a senseless game?

So there's this guy who is at least narcissistic, smart, very good looking etc. I slept with him once years ago. Then some years later we met and chatted off and on through social media. It was ok.
I should add the after he and I had sex once I turned him down twice or so this years ago. So as he and I chatted I hinted for another go he didn't take the bait. The only thing is he suggested a threesome. I cussed him out.
Then he apologized. Some days later he introduces me to friend (I had introduced him to another chick, the date was a disaster I heard. He brought up my sexual history on the date.).
So I figured this his friend was after one thing so, I flirted with both guys online through social media, texting. That's when all hell broke loose. He made an all out campaign telling his neighbours, friends and people he knew that knew me that I was a slut. While claiming to be my friend. Also of course convinced his friend that I was evil incarnate.
He and his friend would compare notes on what I had texted. Meanwhile he was cheating on his own gf with every female he could sleep with, then discarded them after sex. Eventually the friend and I started dating, some people in his neighbourhood didn't believe his lies about me as much as his friend was a stone's throw away and I was loyal. Of course the "I'm worried for you buddy" talks with his friend continued. But when he saw me on the street he'd just keep staring.

My question is, what was the point of all that?

maybe it means it's time for you to get better taste in men

Maybe he was jealous.. whatever it is.. walk away and never look back, unless you want that in your life.

Personally it sounds like a complete mess, I don’t understand why anyone would willingly get into a situation like that unless of course they love drama.

The reason for this could well be thrill-seeking derived from boredom.

It's just weird. Feels like I was in a game and not told the rules. Might have been fun to play if honesty was a trait of his.

I'm not sure what you're asking.

You told him no, then tried to change your mind, told him no again and then started flirting with him and his friend.

You are a slut and he called you on it.

What was the question?

justonemoreperson wrote:You are a slut and he called you on it.

What was the question?

Merciless and to the point. I anticipated no less from you.

Geniea wrote: I slept with him once years ago. Then some years later we met and chatted off and on through social media. It was ok.
I should add the after he and I had sex once I turned him down twice or so this years ago. So as he and I chatted I hinted for another go he didn't take the bait. The only thing is he suggested a threesome. I cussed him out.

Then he apologized. Some days later he introduces me to friend (I had introduced him to another chick, the date was a disaster I heard. He brought up my sexual history on the date.).
So I figured this his friend was after one thing so, I flirted with both guys online through social media, texting. That's when all hell broke loose.

Geniea wrote:It's just weird. Feels like I was in a game and not told the rules

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDxEvdICKnw