~ Fantasies ~

Claimed as in for all I know you could be a Nigerian prince.

You consistently invalidate everything I say. I bet you know who I am, I'm a female.

Hallava wrote:I don't even know how my appearance is relative here.

On the assumption that you meant relevant instead of relative:

Probably because you specifically brought it up as the reason for making your original point.

My guess is that, as much as you say you don't care about how others see you, the truth is that you don't think you'd live up to what people expect and so you've retreated to a position where you "don't care what others' think."

Of all the people I know, maybe two or three of them genuinely don't care about other people's impressions of them and they have one thing in common: they don't have a need to state it.

Do they state it if called fat and ugly feminist.

justonemoreperson wrote:My guess is that, as much as you say you don't care about how others see you, the truth is that you don't think you'd live up to what people expect and so you've retreated to a position where you "don't care what others' think."

I'm still not getting it, why should I live up to other people's expectations?

Do you need a bigger car because your neighbor has one? The consumer society is thriving with envy, over here around 50% of people have a car. And even though environmental policy should take precedence, unfortunately, in recent years the car is even tacitly encouraged.

I'm still not going to buy a car.

Hallava wrote:I'm still not getting it, why should I live up to other people's expectations?

You don't; no one does. What makes me think that it's how you'd like to be rather than how you are is the fact you have to state it.

You seem to be doing it as an act of defiance; so the motive is still based on other's perceptions.

I'm still not going to buy a car.

Are you as happy with that decision if no one cares or notices? You're hiding behind abstract principles.

justonemoreperson wrote:You seem to be doing it as an act of defiance; so the motive is still based on other's perceptions.

Have you considered that it just might be something foreign to you that you can't understand or accept the matter. You are thinking through others here.

justonemoreperson wrote:Are you as happy with that decision if no one cares or notices? You're hiding behind abstract principles.

More like a funny example. And environmental issues are close to my heart.

Of course I may sound defiant, but that's only the nature of this debate from the beginning. And so how you grasp my persona here on the internet.

Hallava wrote:Have you considered that it just might be something foreign to you that you can't understand or accept the matter. You are thinking through others here.

No, not really. I tend not to care what people think unless it's for a purpose but I don't find a need to mention it. It was more of a question for you to consider; I don't care.

justonemoreperson wrote:And so how you grasp my persona here on the internet.

Of course.

And environmental issues are close to my heart.

Really? What do you do personally to help the environment?

1). What are your biggest fantasies? Great success? Ideal love? Rape? Murder? Explain.
I don't really have fantasies, everything that I guess I could have considered a fantasy, I have already done. normally sexual in nature.. nothing like rape or murder or any of that crap. that's all too much work for me and I don't have the desire.. Rape is unappealing, I want the women to want me.

2). Where do they stem from? Childhood? A movie?
hmm writing my last answer I guess I could twist it around to being about my childhood. I just wrote that I want the woman to want me. maybe I feel that way because as a child I always wanted my mother to accept me as I was and not what she was forcing me to be.. interesting

3). How closely are they tied to reality? Have you made any steps toward them? Do you intend to?
I have done everything I have wanted in this area. wasn't as good in real life compared to how I imagined it to be

justonemoreperson wrote:Really? What do you do personally to help the environment?

Many things. I would say that my carbon footprint is about half from average.

Hallava wrote:

justonemoreperson wrote:Really? What do you do personally to help the environment?

Many things.

Does your home use sustainable energy?

Do you reclaim your water?

Solar energy or wind?

Or is it just "I use my own water bottle and can't afford a car?"

What type of phone do you have?

Where do you buy your clothes?

Come on, if you care about the environment, sell us your vision. Help us to be more like you.