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by julllia » Sun Apr 01, 2018 3:25 pm
similar with narcissists how come one child is the scapegoat and the other the golden child
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by caspin » Sun Apr 01, 2018 3:27 pm
julllia wrote:similar with narcissists how come one child is the scapegoat and the other the golden child
you have hard about nature and nurture from your parents
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by julllia » Sun Apr 01, 2018 3:35 pm
i just had a second wondering if i would have been a killer or not if i had terrifying childhood . but i do not want to even wonder is too scary to have such childhood
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by Reaper » Sun Apr 01, 2018 3:38 pm
julllia wrote:similar with narcissists how come one child is the scapegoat and the other the golden child
Because parents are selective for a variety of reasons. They see more of themselves in one child than the other or one child is more obedient than the other etc.
All parents tell their kids they love them equally, but it's bullshlt.
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by Sixoclock0 » Sun Apr 01, 2018 3:51 pm
Reaper wrote:All parents tell their kids they love them equally, but it's bullshlt.
You don't even know what love is, you're statements are BS. I can't imagine not loving my kid(s) equally, even in plural.
My kid defiantly declared today, in the middle of the city, that he is going to stay there. But nothing he does can make me not love him, or make me love him less.
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by Reaper » Sun Apr 01, 2018 4:01 pm
Sixoclock0 wrote:Reaper wrote:All parents tell their kids they love them equally, but it's bullshlt.
You don't even know what love is, you're statements are BS. I can't imagine not loving my kid(s) equally, even in plural.
You have one kid. What the fuk do you know about loving your own kids equally. I have one kid too, but I'm basing this off my experience growing up with siblings. My mother told us she loved us equally, but I truly believe my brother was the golden child, until my sister came along. Now she's the golden child.
I've determined this by how much money she spends on us to help us succeed.
My brother was sent to a private school when we were kids to help further his education, and my sister is the one who my mother spends money on the most to help her get through university. She wouldn't do that for me. She says it's because I never finish anything I start, but I think that's a bullshlt reason not to support me.
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by Contrast » Sun Apr 01, 2018 4:02 pm
Sixoclock0 wrote:Reaper wrote:All parents tell their kids they love them equally, but it's bullshlt.
You don't even know what love is, you're statements are BS. I can't imagine not loving my kid(s) equally, even in plural.
My kid defiantly declared today, in the middle of the city, that he is going to stay there. But nothing he does can make me not love him, or make me love him less.
It’s that motherly love that let me get away with murder before leaving home
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by julllia » Sun Apr 01, 2018 4:16 pm
^love and no boundaries/codependency are not the same.
btw i do feel that six gets upsets/takes it personally irrelevantly some times but is funny if you don't get upset in return,if you do then is upseting
"how dare you made me think i might have to consider if i am doing anything wrong,i do nothing wrong,i can't take critisism"
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by caspin » Sun Apr 01, 2018 4:19 pm
no I do not like a no for a answer. I feel to do something, go out with my dog maybe.
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by Sixoclock0 » Sun Apr 01, 2018 4:25 pm
Reaper wrote:...
You can't argue that based on your experience, all else is bs. When your experiences are supposedly pretty marginal.
julllia wrote:btw i do feel that six gets upsets/takes it personally irrelevantly some times but is funny if you don't get upset in return,if you do then is upseting
Eh. I don't think or experience things like you do.
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