-- Thu Jul 20, 2017 7:55 pm --
KITCHENCONNOISSEUR wrote:I grew up without any figure that I deemed worthwhile. I started "absorbing personalities" just like a chameleon camouflages himself with his environment. I was, as far as I can tell, selecting traits and values that attracted me. Obviously, it's something I can only explain today while looking back. During my development, both my environment and my genes were influencing me unconsciously; I had no power, no say on the matter. It was like a magnet and certain characters where clearly having an impact on me more than others. It's as if everything was already set, as if my unconscious knew what ingredients to shop for what was needed.
Many fictional characters have had an impact, to a certain extent, on who I ended up being. But the state of oneself is constantly in motion, always changing, and the one who had the biggest impact on my life arrived quite late. "Goku Black" represents me most as a whole. I can't stop myself from mentioning Martin Heidegger's Being and Time when I think of that particular character and "my future self."
"Being and Time", that would be more than I had expected reading PF. Could you elaborate on the connection? In the time it takes to read wikipedia and a little more I'll resist the temptation to respond to the other thread I was reading about mistaking love for infatuation.
I could say though that once the demand for reproduction has past, then as a woman in particular this changes the complexion. I believe that I was brainwashed by country music songs, and pop culture about 'falling in love'.
It's over rated. Why is my alarm going off...?
Oh that was the rice.