crystal_richardson_ wrote:Your PM to her was decent and nice. You could have just left it there; probably would have been better for you. She doesn't do decent and nice. You've learned that now.
it's not that i am not a nice person. i can be nice...it's just both of you are totally imposing your expectations on others
there is no reason to end the discussions in this thread. they are constructive discussions of our perceptions of each other.
but for some reason you seem to take our disagreement as something that needs to be 'smoothed over' and 'at the end of the day let's be friends and make nice'
i am sorry but i just don't cater to that, i have no incentive to make you feel more comfortable disagreeing with me.
there is no need to hug and make nice after every little disagreement lol
the issue is you don't feel in control of me emotionally and you're trying to pass it off as me being unreasonably mean and indecent
a very borderline tendency.
i am not going to cater to your BPD. sorry Will..
Bit better.
The PM was sent because I cared about your state of mind. You're a floundering narcissist with an array of other psychotic problems, visibly skin-grafted to an internet forum populated by people who don't respect your input, and without condescension, I took pity on you.
Within that floundering you unwittingly validated the points I made, which continued after the long analysis I did. Linking my motivations to selfishness and BPD is intriguing (and without context, almost plausible), but a better move would've been to focus on my sense of entitlement.
An advantage to sincere honesty, is that one can be dually honest and calculating at the same time. And such is the nature of sincerity, nothing changes by admitting that calculation.
I really did send that PM out of kindness. But, knowing it was kind, and knowing how flimsy your own honesty can be, perhaps your response was anticipated.
You're unfortunately not metacognitive enough to play this kind of ball, crystal. There's distinct improvements in your perception when you're straight compared to when you're high, but the benchmark only rises far enough to manage things in your direct line-of-sight. Which you sometimes do quite well.
I'm perhaps a little more sadistic than I've let on, but I'm no bully. Kicking you any further seems cruel and uninteresting (but I'll still reply to anything interesting you post). Not sure where you got the idea the conversation was over.
-- Sun Sep 18, 2016 1:29 am --
Exempt wrote:Will Incandenza wrote:Exempt could well be the most sociopathic out of everyone, but there's fuk-all to go on, so it's just as likely he's the least.
Why? I agree there's very little to go on, none of which you can verify, so what are you going on exactly?
1 + -1 = 0. Nothing to explain beyond what I already said. To satisfy you: You're wildcardish and inconsistent; sometimes encouraging people to self-harm; other times attempting to give genuine advice (albeit through a pretty [unusual] value system).
Will Incandenza wrote:Who is the least constructive poster:
Until recently, Exempt & streaM Freak
Why?
You were on a Reaper rampage and giving fuked-up advice in the BPD forum, and trolling unconfident members looking for advice. Recently you've been more constructive, hence the follow-up point.