The Perfect Partner

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The essence of beauty question is interesting...i had to think about it before replying

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:1). If you had to spend your life with one other person forever, what would they be like?

2). What do you think is the essence of beauty?

3). Keeping an open mind, do you see any sort of beauty in this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLy-AwdCOmI

1. Either someone who is easy to use...a physically attractive doormat, or someone who is similar to myself most likely. I imagine the latter would work better long term.

2. Yours truly.

3. I don't know what I think of that video.

Inquisitor wrote:Such a BPD question. This reminds me of when Borderline partners of Narcissists ask questions like, "What does trust mean to you?" Really?

Hahahahahaha "What does honesty MEAN to you?"

lolidk wrote:
Hahahahahaha "What does honesty MEAN to you?"

How do people answer this type of questions anyway? I never knew how.

i guess there are different types/degrees of honesty.

like some people think being honest is telling their thoughts no matter the situation.

others think it is being honest only in romantic relationships or people you care about, and then about certain things only...

that's my understanding of it.

Im-pure wrote:

lolidk wrote:
Hahahahahaha "What does honesty MEAN to you?"

How do people answer this type of questions anyway? I never knew how.

I think WHY would someone ask this type of question is the better thing to ask.

Dark Soul wrote:
Actually, I'm going to change my answer cause I know my daughter wouldn't want to spend the rest of her life with me. She'd rather spend it with her boyfriend.

That's a beautifully selfless outlook.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:i guess there are different types/degrees of honesty.

like some people think being honest is telling their thoughts no matter the situation.

others think it is being honest only in romantic relationships or people you care about, and then about certain things only...

that's my understanding of it.

That makes sense

-- Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:43 am --

lolidk wrote:
I think WHY would someone ask this type of question is the better thing to ask.

Compatibility interview or trying to understand the partner's views for one reason or another

Im-pure wrote:

crystal_richardson_ wrote:i guess there are different types/degrees of honesty.

like some people think being honest is telling their thoughts no matter the situation.

others think it is being honest only in romantic relationships or people you care about, and then about certain things only...

that's my understanding of it.

That makes sense

-- Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:43 am --

lolidk wrote:
I think WHY would someone ask this type of question is the better thing to ask.

Compatibility interview or trying to understand the partner's views for one reason or another

In the case of that person, it seemed to be an attempt to catch me up on not being genuine enough or something.

I am at the age where I no longer have the time to mess around with relationships. It has to have some value or purpose and if it is romantic it needs to have momentum and direction. I have been dating long enough to know what I like and what turns me away.

Physically, I used to be fussier when it came to exactly how people looked. I am less concerned with that when it comes to a long term partner. They have to look after themselves, be well groomed and in good health otherwise they are not good for the long term and a waste to put any amount of energy into.

Other than the physical aspect, I tend to look for those who show some degree of security and maturity. Preferably I like individuals that are career driven with the intention to move forward in their chosen career. They don't need to have the same likes and dislikes or hobbies but its generally a good idea that we have compatible life goals which leads to the last point: that they need to know where they are going in life in order for me to assess that.

I am aware that I am fussy. I don't care. I would rather be alone and put my energy into other things than to waste time on frivolous endeavours.

They would have to be female, incredibly attractive, slim, well toned with blonde hair and big tits.

Someone who can laugh at themself and someone who's not too bothered about intelligent conversation.

She would have to be capable of handling herself as well.

That's all really, I don't ask for much me.