The Perfect Partner

MrSigma wrote:Fuk you.

Anywhoo. I've gotten lousy lays tell me I was horrible in bed, and others get off only to worry whether or not they were a total bore or not. I've also had women curse and mutter with little more than an insertion.



I genuinely got no idea what I am supposed to be in bed, but I know what I want.

###$ you too

but about sex....

yeah, I think its usually more about them than about you

although ofc if you give them multiple orgasms, its about you

I had guys cum after just touching me a little bit

guys who could stroke for hours and not cum

guys who came in a few seconds after insertion

guys who couldn't get hard at all

guys who got hard then got soft

so...that tells me i'm not the common denominator....i'm either the sexiest goddess ever (cumming with nothing) or hideously repulsive.....probably something in between..neither or...just a regular joe...well, maybe slightly above average

so blame them...i'm sure you're an Adonnis in bed

Inquisitor wrote:

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:1). If you had to spend your life with one other person forever, what would they be like?

I'm one of these PD'd types who idealizes potential partners and looks for an ideal other, but it's kind of interesting that I can't really come up with an answer to this question. Almost like the idealization is really about some need inside myself and not about the other person.

I agree

Inquisitor wrote:

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:

2). What do you think is the essence of beauty?

Such a BPD question. This reminds me of when Borderline partners of Narcissists ask questions like, "What does trust mean to you?" Really?

Aw, don't be a pussy

Try again please.

What do you find beautiful, Inquisitor?

Is it too emotional of a question?

-- Fri Nov 20, 2015 7:20 pm --

Here's an example: I find subtle confidence inside of a knowingly faulty body, beautiful. The season Fall. Smooth skin on Asian women. Things that give me good positive emotions i find beautiful, in one way or another.

hbu?

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:1). If you had to spend your life with one other person forever, what would they be like?

They'd be exactly like my daughter, because no-one else means anything to me.

2). What do you think is the essence of beauty?

I have no idea. I have very limited artistic interests.

3). Keeping an open mind, do you see any sort of beauty in this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLy-AwdCOmI

No, and the song was annoying.

Dark Soul wrote:

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:1). If you had to spend your life with one other person forever, what would they be like?

They'd be exactly like my daughter, because no-one else means anything to me.

What's she like?

Dark Soul wrote:

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:2). What do you think is the essence of beauty?

I have no idea. I have very limited artistic interests.

high five

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:What do you find beautiful, Inquisitor?

Is it too emotional of a question?

-- Fri Nov 20, 2015 7:20 pm --

Here's an example: I find subtle confidence inside of a knowingly faulty body, beautiful. The season Fall. Smooth skin on Asian women. Things that give me good positive emotions i find beautiful, in one way or another.

hbu?

For whatever reason, I feel like the part of myself that has the ability to access what people are talking about when it comes to the beauty of sunsets or the concept of paradise is either shut off or never was.

I find an attractive woman in a revealing outfit to be hot or sexy, but I don't think that's what you mean.

I think you are asking me what I find moving at an emotional or sentimental level.

I don't think I have an answer for that.

I find expressions of strength or power, in a positive way, to be pretty awesome sometimes. Like when someone is really good at something, and enjoying their own strengths.

I have a sort of muted, subdued version of those middle sensitivities that you're talking about though. For example, this music video by Sam Smith is oozing in sentimentality:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xeugznpGKPA

But that may just be a part of my whole search for the idealized love sort of thing that I talk about sometimes.

I most often feel the big, primitive emotions, like fear, lust, desire, shame, envy, anger, etc. I don't really have a strong ability to feel the things that people call sentimentality, romance (in the classical sense), etc.

Inquisitor wrote:yada yada

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I find expressions of strength or power, in a positive way, to be pretty awesome sometimes. Like when someone is really good at something, and enjoying their own strengths.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xeugznpGKPA

Good enough. I see what you mean, and it is a valid idea of beauty.

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:

Dark Soul wrote:

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:1). If you had to spend your life with one other person forever, what would they be like?

They'd be exactly like my daughter, because no-one else means anything to me.

What's she like?

It doesn't matter what she's like. The fact that she's apart of me is the reason I gave that answer.

Actually, I'm going to change my answer cause I know my daughter wouldn't want to spend the rest of her life with me. She'd rather spend it with her boyfriend.

If I did have to spend the rest of my life with one person forever, I'd rather it be with someone I'm sexually attracted to and can fuk any time I want to. So, yeah, definitely not my daughter.

I'll tell you what that person would be like when I give it some more thought.

Dark Soul wrote:Actually, I'm going to change my answer cause I know my daughter wouldn't want to spend the rest of her life with me.

That's thoughtful of you.

Do you have fun spending time with her?

mushybaNaNaNa wrote:Do you have fun spending time with her?

We don't spend much time together, but I do enjoy her company when we do.

We can talk about anything and everything and she's fun to play computer games with occasionally cause she does random, unpredictable stuff. You just never really know what to expect from her in a computer game.

I also like the fact she's not an emotional kid, which to me is a sign of strength. Emotional people are weak. They annoy me. By 'emotional' I mean people whose feelings get hurt easily.