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Actually I think that,

They make a pretty good point.
Except they're not very talented at getting their way.

The off-topic thread is used as a dumping ground for any thread that Ada personally deems off topic. If you want my opinion, this should cease immediately. Many of the threads that are dumped there, happen without any predictable formula. Many of them are not chat threads per se, but general discussion threads which actually stay somewhat on topic.

The off topic thread as conceived, is a fine example of a chat thread, and should just be used as such. It's a good place for posters to take their scraps, especially with Dark Soul, because apparently everyone likes to scrap with Dark Soul.

I think that general discussion threads should be allowed in the forum regardless of how applicable they are to ASPD. There is only so much that can be repeated about ASPD.

If some members want to make contact outside of the forum, Avruk brings up a good point, that it's human nature and should be allowed. Simply because this forum has a history of one member giving up too much personal information too quickly and being harassed as a result, is insufficient rationale to permanently restrict any future encounters between other members. I'm to understand that most of the perpetrators of this incident have been banned.

Dark Soul wrote:I'm feeling very aggressive at the moment, drunk and bored.

I feel like starting a fight, but I'm so tired, I won't be able to carry it on for long.

Do you ever feel like that. Like you just want to beat the shlt out of someone (verbally and/or physically) because you're bored and aggressive?

I feel this way a lot

I know some of you might think borderlines are all weak wusses...but actually, most of us are constantly seething with explosive anger with no outlet....

I used to go into venting rage attacks on facebook

people kept defriending me

so I stopped going on facebook. then I started venting elsewhere, but noticed, people were slowly starting to avoid me....

I try to stuff it down most of the time..but, it would be nice to have somewhere I could just unleash rage and fury....like decades worth of rage that has been suppressed ...especially when drunk, that's when it seems to come out of the most

I used to have boyfriends that let me beat them up sometimes....but, eventually, that will just get me arrested, or killed....

justagirl00 wrote:

Dark Soul wrote:I'm feeling very aggressive at the moment, drunk and bored.

I feel like starting a fight, but I'm so tired, I won't be able to carry it on for long.

Do you ever feel like that. Like you just want to beat the shlt out of someone (verbally and/or physically) because you're bored and aggressive?

I feel this way a lot

I know some of you might think borderlines are all weak wusses...but actually, most of us are constantly seething with explosive anger with no outlet....

I used to go into venting rage attacks on facebook

people kept defriending me

so I stopped going on facebook. then I started venting elsewhere, but noticed, people were slowly starting to avoid me....

I try to stuff it down most of the time..but, it would be nice to have somewhere I could just unleash rage and fury....like decades worth of rage that has been suppressed ...especially when drunk, that's when it seems to come out of the most

I used to have boyfriends that let me beat them up sometimes....but, eventually, that will just get me arrested, or killed....

lol
that's really funny.

I've also done that facebook thing. I don't think I really understood what facebook was for, truly.

Never had a girlfriend who wanted to get physically violent with me though.
I imagine if I was ever in that situation I'd probably just let her rage a bit then like, win, then let her rage some more, then win again. lol

huggles wrote:

joltaire wrote:I'm quite good looking.
Mostly pleasant, and friendly. Good physical stature, albeit somewhat short at 5'9". A nice smile, good straight teeth. Very hygienic, the beard is usually trimmed but also comes in thick when I grow it. Good complexion, and generally Nordic in overall appearance. I get a good many compliments on my excellent facial bone structure/jawline, as well as very light blue eyes which sparkle in the sun and wrinkle when I smile.

I have been told at numerous points in my life that I resemble Channing Tatum. Everyone has a celebrity look alike to some extent I guess.

I'm quite good looking.
Mostly charming, and easy to talk to. I have an amazing body, albeit my boobs are a little large (but at least they match my hips). My smile is disengaging, and my ass hairs are perfectly straightened. I do not need to bath, my body is capable of self cleaning, and my vagina is a literal flower that has several muscles not otherwise found in other women's vaginas that make it capable of massaging a penis. My butthole sparkles in the sun and wrinkles when I smile.

Marry me?

joltaire wrote:lol
that's really funny.

I've also done that facebook thing. I don't think I really understood what facebook was for, truly.

Never had a girlfriend who wanted to get physically violent with me though.
I imagine if I was ever in that situation I'd probably just let her rage a bit then like, win, then let her rage some more, then win again. lol

I've had mixed reactions from boyfriends. some sort of liked it.

most were bigger and stronger than me. I tend to end up with the weight-lifting, body builder types.

one guy would laugh hysterically while I beat up on him. he said it was flattering, like it must mean I must really like him

a few other guys were legitimately scared of me. they would call the police

I never got arrested for it, but I did get questioned. but i'm a small, delicate looking girl, so they never took it seriously

others hit me back. or, they hit me to begin with, and then I hit them back, and i'm stronger than I look. even the most roided-up tattooed gangster can be intimated by me when i'm in full rage mode...i'm like an uncaged tiger

I can't help it though.

its part of borderline

I just wish there was an effective or safe way to vent it though

without getting arrested or alienating everyone

justagirl00 wrote:I just wish there was an effective or safe way to vent it though

without getting arrested or alienating everyone

There is, and you've found it.
The ones who are flattered by it, who allow it, who laugh about it.

It's no different than that video from a while back, of the girl who was like ... "if you boyfriend hits you, STAY WITH HIM because he LOVES YOU"

like, that's pretty ###$ by conventional standards but in my mind she's kind of got a point. It was logical, well, her reasoning was logical in that it correctly followed A-B-C, it was intrinsically logical, it just offended most taboos of society. Most people gasp and decry these things but what happens between consenting adults is consensual imo.

I think if I was ever in that situation, it would be funny until I would like SNAP and then just win the fight, really quickly,
then probably the intensity would spiral and escalate

it would probably end in sex.

joltaire wrote:

justagirl00 wrote:I just wish there was an effective or safe way to vent it though

without getting arrested or alienating everyone

There is, and you've found it.
The ones who are flattered by it, who allow it, who laugh about it.

It's no different than that video from a while back, of the girl who was like ... "if you boyfriend hits you, STAY WITH HIM because he LOVES YOU"

like, that's pretty ###$ by conventional standards but in my mind she's kind of got a point. It was logical, well, her reasoning was logical in that it correctly followed A-B-C, it was intrinsically logical, it just offended most taboos of society. Most people gasp and decry these things but what happens between consenting adults is consensual imo.

I think if I was ever in that situation, it would be funny until I would like SNAP and then just win the fight, really quickly,
then probably the intensity would spiral and escalate

it would probably end in sex.

Sometimes it can end it sex, but at least twice it ended with broken bones

My own, because I was trying to punch him but punched the wall instead and broke my hand

yeah...TWICE

I can do damage, if not to him, then to myself, while trying

there are no brakes. I said that a long time before I knew I was borderline

THERE ARE NO BRAKES...no such thing as a little bit of anger....

and the boyfriend who got me to beat him up, yeah, he always triggered me. probably on purpose. since he obviously had some fetish for it

probably the same as the girl in the video who said to stay with the guy who hits you

and I feel that same way too. when a guy hits me, its flattering

that is ###$ up

but maybe some rage/venting thread would be helpful, since there are not many places where most people can vent, without being judged for it

what better place than the AsPD forum?

do AsPDs have rage? I know borderlines do, but not sure about AsPDs...I assume they do...

i think guys fear fighting girls when they start hitting them in a rage because they can't go full out on them but she can and does.

you can only defend yourself to a point before you need to hit someone back right?

well if you can't hit back you're actually at a huge disadvantage.

so it's like what guys fear is their own strength and the consequences of losing their cool in a situation where their nature is to blast their opponent with all they got.

that's what to looks like to me anyhow..

It's like DS said I get more rageful when drunk,
or scorned.

Narcissistic injury can drive me into a frenzy because it can spark a positive feedback look/vicious cycle whenceforth there is literally no escape until it exhausts its energy supply.

This is why a skype group, as has been suggested in this thread, might help members who feel intensely emotional to vent in a constructive manner. OOOOH I risk being banned by even talking about SKYPE GROUP you SHALL not talk about skype group.

so stupid.

Anyway I digress. A rage/vent thread or uh other means of expression would (might) help (the borderlines and dark soul) immensely,
probably many of the ASPD posters would not really need it but they could get their fix of trolling I suppose, trying to practice making people angrier. It would be good to have that as well, because like I said, this type of rage can persist until its energy reserves are exhausted.

So it's a good idea. There, ban me.

if anyone wants to chat or frolic about without rules join mental-health-group.com

you'll see some familiar faces right away. although i heard that forum is kind of ghost town as well...ever i left ...and many of them have come here....and no surprise they b*tch about rules and social fascism

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justagirl00 wrote:

joltaire wrote:

justagirl00 wrote:I just wish there was an effective or safe way to vent it though

without getting arrested or alienating everyone

There is, and you've found it.
The ones who are flattered by it, who allow it, who laugh about it.

It's no different than that video from a while back, of the girl who was like ... "if you boyfriend hits you, STAY WITH HIM because he LOVES YOU"

like, that's pretty ###$ by conventional standards but in my mind she's kind of got a point. It was logical, well, her reasoning was logical in that it correctly followed A-B-C, it was intrinsically logical, it just offended most taboos of society. Most people gasp and decry these things but what happens between consenting adults is consensual imo.

I think if I was ever in that situation, it would be funny until I would like SNAP and then just win the fight, really quickly,
then probably the intensity would spiral and escalate

it would probably end in sex.

Sometimes it can end it sex, but at least twice it ended with broken bones

My own, because I was trying to punch him but punched the wall instead and broke my hand

yeah...TWICE

I can do damage, if not to him, then to myself, while trying

there are no brakes. I said that a long time before I knew I was borderline

THERE ARE NO BRAKES...no such thing as a little bit of anger....

and the boyfriend who got me to beat him up, yeah, he always triggered me. probably on purpose. since he obviously had some fetish for it

probably the same as the girl in the video who said to stay with the guy who hits you

and I feel that same way too. when a guy hits me, its flattering

that is ###$ up

but maybe some rage/venting thread would be helpful, since there are not many places where most people can vent, without being judged for it

what better place than the AsPD forum?

do AsPDs have rage? I know borderlines do, but not sure about AsPDs...I assume they do...

maybe he let you as a favour.

i've been inclined in the past to let guys hit me when they need to take it out on someone.

pain also distracts me at the time from whatever. it can be a release for both