Sex - What's Your Style?

crystal_richardson_ wrote:hmmmm lol

What's that? You're interested?

Dark Soul wrote:
I don't know how you can find BDSM boring. Don't you like to experiment sexually?

I guess that's why they call it "tastes" and not "universal truth of what is erotic and what is not for absolutely every single person on earth"

The kinkiest thing I've ever done during sex was use a knife on someone. I teased them with the blade and held it to their throat as I fked them. That was a big turn on. Also, holding a loaded gun to someone's head during sex turns me on too, but not as much as using a knife on them.

I see. That's kind of my point though. If you get off from hurting people, what was the fun in these situations you described? You didn't stab your partner and you didn't shoot them (as far as I understand from your story). No harm done, just a game.

I get off some things too, but I have to actually *do* them. Not pretend I will do them, or roleplay that I am doing them. That's my main reason why I don't enjoy BDSM that much. Chicks into it are usually more likely to enjoy rough sex, but if I have to agree on the details in advance, I might as well just go home and jerk off.

miss_lilith wrote:It can be fun occasionally, but gets boring if done all the time. I prefer spontaniety and variety.

Agree. The lack of spontaneity it a big turn off for me. Sexual practices to me have to come naturally and do what you do at the moment..

xSid wrote: If you get off from hurting people, what was the fun in these situations you described? You didn't stab your partner and you didn't shoot them (as far as I understand from your story). No harm done, just a game.

It's not a game. It's just something I enjoy doing to enhance the orgasm. Hurting people gives me a certain amount of pleasure, which is increased during sex. Though, I don't always have to hurt them in order to get off. Just the threat of doing so, by holding a knife to their throat etc. (during sex), can be enough.

I get off some things too, but I have to actually *do* them.

What really gets me off is murder. When I hurt someone I like to think about killing them, and I want to kill them, but I can't just go around killing people any damn time I feel like it. Well, I could, but that lack of self-control would get me caught in no time, especially if I'd just fked the victim and left my dna all over their body.

BDSM offers an alternative to things I want to do, but can't always do. It's not something I like to do all the time. I couldn't live a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle because that would not only bore me, it would also frustrate me.

And I was hoping to score a little higher on pervert.

100% Degradation Giver
100% Voyeur
96% Exhibitionist
96% Experimentalist
88% Switch
84% Dominant
77% Primal (Predator)
76% Brat Tamer
75% Daddy/Mommy
75% Non-monogamist
71% Sadist
67% Primal (Prey)
66% Master/Mistress
63% Bondage Giver
59% Pervert
41% Bondage Receiver
34% Masochist
30% Girl/Boy
21% Brat
13% Vanilla
11% Submissive
4% Degradation Receiver
0% All-Rounder
0% Slave

91% Exhibitionist
79% Submissive
68% Brat
67% Primal (Prey)
66% Experimentalist
58% Voyeur
54% Primal (Predator)
51% Slave
41% Daddy/Mommy
41% Masochist
38% Switch
38% Vanilla
34% Girl/Boy
28% Brat Tamer
25% Non-monogamist
21% Master/Mistress
20% Dominant
9% All-Rounder
4% Bondage Receiver
0% Bondage Giver
0% Degradation Giver
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Pervert
0% Sadist

Sounds about right

100% Bondage Giver
100% Degradation Giver
100% Masochist
100% Sadist
96% Dominant
93% Primal (Predator)
88% Switch
83% Master/Mistress
80% Primal (Prey)
75% Experimentalist
75% Girl/Boy
73% Pervert
58% Daddy/Mommy
54% Slave
46% Non-monogamist
45% Bondage Receiver
25% Brat
25% Degradation Receiver
13% All-Rounder
13% Exhibitionist
13% Submissive
13% Voyeur
4% Vanilla

I'm a switch, but I am really monogamous for an aspd. The kinkiest thing I've done? I am NOT answering that, but I will say that I was wildly underage when I did it. Causing people pain turns me on a lot. I can't think of anything more satisfying than to kill someone while f*cking them, but that is a little illegal. I don't know, I expected lower scores. I teach Sunday School.

100% Degradation Giver
96% Sadist
88% Experimentalist
84% Dominant
84% Pervert
84% Switch
83% Non-monogamist
79% Voyeur
75% Exhibitionist
71% Brat Tamer
70% Bondage Giver
70% Degradation Receiver
63% Primal (Predator)
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Masochist
54% Submissive
53% Brat
41% Bondage Receiver
38% Vanilla
16% Daddy/Mommy
13% Girl/Boy
13% Master/Mistress
0% All-Rounder
0% Slave

From someone who's normal, trending towards being boring.

63% Bondage Giver
58% Dominant
58% Switch
58% Vanilla
54% Daddy/Mommy
50% Brat Tamer
50% Degradation Giver
49% Master/Mistress
46% Experimentalist
45% Bondage Receiver
43% All-Rounder
39% Primal (Predator)
39% Primal (Prey)
36% Masochist
34% Girl/Boy
34% Slave
33% Degradation Receiver
33% Voyeur
32% Brat
30% Submissive
25% Sadist
24% Non-monogamist
13% Exhibitionist
6% Pervert

I just like Vanilla...

my only kink is probably anal...which I do quite often...but I don't even really consider it a kink

and I do some weirder stuff occasionally but it's more something on the spur of the moment

anyway, the best sex is on drugs. i think all this BDSM is basically a poor attempt to spice things up.

pleasure is all in the brain...for both sexes...with proper paced stimulation and timing coming secondary

only when you're ready for it mentality, which takes communication.

orgasming together is great fun.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:I just like Vanilla...

my only kink is probably anal...which I do quite often...but I don't even really consider it a kink

Eww...

Deep down, pardon the pun, I don't think women can truly enjoy anal anyway. They just get off on whatever the creep is doing it getting all giddy and the roughness and degradation of it all. I mean I don't think anyone enjoys taking a dump that much!

anyway, the best sex is on drugs. i think all this BDSM is basically a poor attempt to spice things up.

Yes... you have no idea