What do you look like?

A little, of course.

I don't mind wearing makeup, I just don't like creating all the illusions with it. I want those things naturally.

If you rely on makeup, then you are only as good as your makeup.

Nothing stands out...you aren't exceptional

Now I am exceptional in many respects but there are things that are holding me back and those need to be addressed.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:I don't care about personality. If I am beautiful then I don't need a personality. And I don't want one.

Look, I don't mean ethics, or righteousness, or your predisposition. I mean the hundreds of thousands of small signals which your movements, speech, and eye emanate every second.

Your posture. You understand that there was a time when "beauty" was the only thing that mattered with trophy wife culture, right? They all went to finishing school to work on their etiquette, posture, and other things which are true beauty.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finishing_school

A finishing school (or charm school) is a school for young people, mostly women, that focuses on teaching social skills and cultural norms as a preparation for entry into adult society.[1][2] The name reflects that it follows on from ordinary school and is intended to complete the educational experience, with classes primarily on etiquette. It may consist of an intensive course, or a one-year programme. (In tsarist Russia known as the Institute for Noblewomen)

Pink01 wrote:I relate quite a bit to your thinking Crystal. If I could be model pretty versus exceptionally intelligent I would choose pretty...because then it doesn't matter.

Exactly.

I couldn't give a damn about intelligence. And modelling was always my dream.

I mean, don't get me wrong I appreciate intelligence in other people, but it's just not me.

My authentic purpose is to be beautiful and nothing else will suffice.

-- Tue Dec 17, 2013 2:17 am --

MrGamma wrote:

crystal_richardson_ wrote:I don't care about personality. If I am beautiful then I don't need a personality. And I don't want one.

Look, I don't mean ethics, or righteousness, or your predisposition. I mean the hundreds of thousands of small signals which your movements, speech, and eye emanate every second.

Your posture. You understand that there was a time when "beauty" was the only thing that mattered with trophy wife culture, right? They all went to finishing school to work on their etiquette, posture, and other things which are true beauty.

I have good posture, etc, but that's only part of it MrO..

No No No... intelligence and beauty are one and the same. I don't mean SAT intelligence, but rather the portion of your brain which is responsible for communicating expression.

Our brains, a huge huge huge portion of them are dedicated to recognizing different faces AND interpreting at an instinctual level the emotions they communicate.


Ask yourself, honestly, why do women fall in love with rock and roll singers. Because beauty is in the way people communicate with each other.

Oh I get what you mean.

I can understand you thinking Crystal. I figured if I was beautiful I could be stunning and on the arm of some rich dude being his pretty trophy/model wife. I certainly wouldn't mind that life lol.

I don't wear makeup...I want to also look good naturally.

MrGamma wrote:Ask yourself, honestly, why do women fall in love with rock and roll singers. Because beauty is in the way people communicate with each other.

Beauty isn't so important for guys though.

You can be a 'rock star' without being physically beautiful With guys, it is the personality.

-- Tue Dec 17, 2013 2:24 am --

I don't care about becoming a model though. I am actually above that.

But I do have to look like one.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Beauty isn't so important for guys though.

You can be a 'rock star' without being physically beautiful With guys, it is the personality.

It's their presence, especially on stage, the power they command or the emotion they express.

Same with the way a woman graces a room, or the way they express compassion, charm, magic.

Animal Magnetism

I see....and are you sure with this surgery(ies) that you will get what you want?

MrGamma wrote:Yeah, your confidence ruins it. Someones personality, the way they control their facial muscles and expressions is 20x more attractive than a "physical feature".

Well, that isn't totally true. I mean some people are blessed with hypnotic eyes, or they have high cheek bones, or whatever.

Generally though, personality is the most attractive or repulsive "feature" one has.

Exactly, Mr. O. Astute observation.
The girl in the pic that Pink posted is physically attractive to me. But then I like a different kind of face than most guys. I can recognize model beauty, but it's not what I prefer.