What do you look like?

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Wahoo you are amazing too!

(He's my favourite lion)

I like you, Crys. I wish you weren't so down on yourself.

That's right.

wahoo wrote:

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Wahoo you are amazing too!

(He's my favourite lion)

I like you, Crys. I wish you weren't so down on yourself.

It's ok. It doesn't really affect me.

I don't get depressed or anything over this.

It's just something that must be.

I am sure it will work out, and when it does I will be complete.

-- Tue Dec 17, 2013 7:17 am --

I still manage quite well...don't get me wrong...I just don't feel complete.

I'm not going to get reported for saying that am I?

Ok, to answer your question: No I don't think so.

I mean if I can't be perfect what is the point of living?

Anyway, I am done talking about it...Probably shouldn't have opened up that box on (this) forum anyway...

Crystal - I really think you should try to become more comfortable with the idea that this might not give you exactly what you want.
That's a scary thing idea isn't it - to put all your eggs in one basket and only have one solution?

By all means, if you want to do the surgery. I'm just saying working towards the idea of...ok I didn't get exactly what I want...but I can be ok with this.

I know there is a time in my past where I know I felt exactly like this, and it was for a prolonged time. I wish I could remember more about that and how I overcame that...but I un(fortunately) don't...I know it was very serious though
If this ______ does not working out I'm done

littlearcher wrote:i'm sad to hear that

Oh come on archer ...you would just love to see me die wouldn't you

I am the opposite of you...it would reaffirm your own perspective...you would feel vindicated right?

littlearcher wrote:i don't need my perspective validated, nor do i need to feel vindicated. i'm comfortable enough with myself and my own ideas and values that i don't feel a need to be "right"

Sure you do. Everyone is in search of a validated perspective.

That's why you mod. I mean you can't be contributing to your retirement fund, right?


You know, the only people who are not in search of a validated perspective are those who have spent the majority of their lives in an educational facility.

You should have listened to how curious my dentist was when I told him I felt no pain with the teeth he was looking at. Son of a bitch yanked out a wisdom tooth, and followed up with a handful of X-Rays which prompted people to leave the room out of fear of cancer.

Now my teeth hurt like fukin hell, as the bastard failed to fix my teeth after he yanked them.

These are the people who need no "validation".

Pink,

I am just not a compromising person.

The improvement needed is not substantial.

-- Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:07 am --

littlearcher wrote:i think you're joking, though, because if you aren't, you clearly haven't been reading any of my posts...

I read everyone's posts.

I just think people don't always type what they are thinking.

Sociopaths are well know for their tact.