Why do you stick around this forum?

I know a guy who did 15 yrs in a max security prison. Also AsPD.

He can sometimes astound me at his sensitivity to being insulted or threatened. He's come back at me, and I've watched him do the same to others, from a simple remark, and put a meaning on it that wasn't intended.

When it happens with me, I challenge him on it because I know what my intention is and it isn't as he reacted. Still, he's adamant that I meant it as he took it.

There's a hypersensitivity to him that's most likely been engrained in him from being inside. I don't fault him for that; he's had a tough life. Still, he's making it tougher on himself outside by fighting with others when there's no need to fight, or defend, or threaten, or establish a strong presence. It's just his way of declaring himself. I'm one of the increasingly few people who'll still interact with him, and I'm guarded.

Not that you've been in prison, xena, but you think you might have a touch of hypersensitivity to certain things? I read through this exchange and that's the way I'm reading it.

Why do you stick around this forum?

I don't know.

Are you people for real?

Picking up random hitchhikers who feel unsafe enough to put their money in their panties and ramming hooks up their pussies to rob them of said money is FUKING AGGRAVATED SEXUAL ASSAULT under our criminal code. In my case, it would also be aggravated physical assault and possibly homicide bc that's what the hypothetical creepy hitchhiker stalker would have to do to get at my money. That was the unstated conclusion when I posted my comment. "Over my dead body."

So asshole's response came down to "tee hee...I'd love to assault and maybe kill you Xena..."

You think rape is funny and women should laugh about it? And anybody who doesn't is hypersensitive? That's really messed up. Didn't you say you worked in some kind of counseling position, Eight?

Yeah, sorry to put the counselors out of work by beating the sh!t out of the rapists and womanbeaters. I'll try to lie down and cry and just get raped next time, so I can whine on some victim forum

@ wooster, Obs knew the exact meaning. He rephrased it in his own words, and posted a picture for fuksakes. And I know whose alt that was. He posts some pretty fuked up $#%^, and yes I believe he would actually do that to somebody if he could get away with it.

He's also posted about getting his ass kicked once, tho he was rather vague about why. It made me wonder if he did something to deserve the asskicking. I can only speculate about that.

DayWreck wrote:I've a booger on the doorway and it won't transmit any information if I don't come by every few weeks.

It's rather attached to me.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:wtf?

I brought it over from 4d.

Obsidian wrote:>Daywreck

Sounds more like it's you who are attached to the booger. :­P

Yes, you've always been a part of me and I'm as attached to you as you are to me.

Ya booger.



This place is like a chicken shoot without the cleanup.

Xena wrote:He's also posted about getting his ass kicked once, tho he was rather vague about why. It made me wonder if he did something to deserve the asskicking. I can only speculate about that.

No, no. He was raped by a dog, came out with some wounds & wound up in the paper. But saying he deserved it...like, maybe...he was asking for it? Maybe he shouldn't have worn a tight white tank-top? Or he could have tried keeping the wafting of his pleasing ass smell out of the dogs nose?

DayWreck wrote:
This place is like a chicken shoot without the cleanup.

I say boy!!!!!

Xena wrote:Are you people for real?
So asshole's response came down to "tee hee...I'd love to assault and maybe kill you Xena..."
You think rape is funny and women should laugh about it? And anybody who doesn't is hypersensitive? That's really messed up.

I didn't take the comment as rape intentions, just a play on words from you saying you'd stick your money where the sun don't shine in your panties.
But, if you know other things about the poster, and you're convinced there was intention, then ok. Makes sense you'd defend yourself.
I just didn't read it that way is all. And that's not messed up.

No harm done, Eight. Prison slang and etiquette are far from universal.

Btw, the man you knew may not have been overreacting. I often have to bite down on my responses to that type of culture clash. There are codes of behaviour among inmates (their own codes, not ones imposed by the facility) that result in violence when they're broken. They're universal among certain populations in Canada bc they cross over into the homeless populations to a large extent, and into the ghettos to a lesser degree. I learned these codes/rituals/taboos when I was 15, the first time I was homeless. I'm pretty good at code switching, but adjusting to university/frat party culture was stressful.That so many kids could get so high and not worry at all about getting jacked up by the cops. Wow. Just wow. Not only did they not get harassed or punished, but they also had an entire cleaning staff cleaning up the mess and cashing in the empty beer bottles. And the cleaners were happy to do so. I'd never seen anything like that.

Ex inmates in the US have similar codes. I'm not sure about where you are. You didn't say, so if it's anywhere outside the US& Canada, I might not know how to interpret the man's hostility.

Xena wrote:No harm done, Eight. Prison slang and etiquette are far from universal.

Btw, the man you knew may not have been overreacting. I often have to bite down on my responses to that type of culture clash. There are codes of behaviour among inmates (their own codes, not ones imposed by the facility) that result in violence when they're broken. They're universal among certain populations in Canada bc they cross over into the homeless populations to a large extent, and into the ghettos to a lesser degree. I learned these codes/rituals/taboos when I was 15, the first time I was homeless. I'm pretty good at code switching, but adjusting to university/frat party culture was stressful.That so many kids could get so high and not worry at all about getting jacked up by the cops. Wow. Just wow. Not only did they not get harassed or punished, but they also had an entire cleaning staff cleaning up the mess and cashing in the empty beer bottles. And the cleaners were happy to do so. I'd never seen anything like that.

Ex inmates in the US have similar codes. I'm not sure about where you are. You didn't say, so if it's anywhere outside the US& Canada, I might not know how to interpret the man's hostility.

Yes codes. The best advice I ever got that maybe my codes were not valid anymore especially when you have a change of environment or lifestyle. Some codes need to be disabled at times but it seems some people's codes are so long used and corroded they are rusted on tight and are hard to loose. Probably cuz your situation right now your a bit more feisty than normal and it probably is a good thing.

You know it, MNO.

The girls here agreed with me when I mentioned this discussion. One read over my shoulder, jumping up&down hollering "tell them all to go fuk themselves" That's not why I'm here, tho. I figured there was probably a misunderstanding, except for the creep, and maybe the koala bc trolling just makes his dick so hard.

Pan Pan Pan... my funny goat man