Why do you stick around this forum?

crystal_richardson_ wrote:So you decided all by yourself to sit in the kitchen while you were angry?

That's not what that suggests.

Less literally, it could be interpreted to mean that she merely suggested that you go sit in the kitchen.

But for some reason I don't believe that's what happened.

F*ck me, ok if I need to explain...

That whole exchange got you on mod-preview. Crackers and I had a laugh about it and then went to the pub for lunch.

I think everyone apart from you could see that at the time.

Well that's what happened after...

But are you denying that she made you sit in the kitchen, with the dog?

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Well that's what happened after...

But are you denying that she made you sit in the kitchen, with the dog?

Oh my god. You really are...I don't know how to describe it...Ok, for the seriously hard of thinking:

It was a complete fabrication. None of that happened, it was all done to serve a purpose - get you banned. How can you not see that?

I know you victim played that day but I didn't think you lied about that bit Because it's consistent with other instances that speak to the point.

-- Tue Jul 09, 2013 7:50 am --

justonemoreperson wrote:

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Well that's what happened after...

But are you denying that she made you sit in the kitchen, with the dog?

Oh my god. You really are...I don't know how to describe it...Ok, for the seriously hard of thinking:

It was a complete fabrication. None of that happened, it was all done to serve a purpose - get you banned. How can you not see that?

mhmm

crystal_richardson_ wrote:I know you victim played that day but I didn't think you lied about that bit Because it's consistent with other instances that speak to the point.

Ok, fair point but you need to realise there's a difference between being in the real world and chatting to a bunch of people in a forum.

A year ago I broke my hand beating a guy into unconsciousness. I lost control and, even though Crackers was there.

I don't get genuinely angry by anything said on the forum because it's pointless. I don't believe half the stuff most people say on here and no one knows who I am; so nothing is personal.

That exchange was out of character for my usual behaviour on the forum and frankly I don't think the mods believed it either, they were just limited in what they could do based on the evidence.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:
Anyway, Crackers is insecure, and hence she controls him. She even has him telling her that she's appealing on a daily basis. She tells him to tell her this

Fyi: If you can't get those compliments naturally, they don't mean anything.

LOL bugger me I just saw this one. Please find the post where this was said and I'll break it down into easier more understandable terms for you.

Wow, one moment you're lecturing the forum on being genuine and now you're rationalizing not being genuine?

Jesus Christ Jomp, you're really doing a number on your credibility right now

Here's a reality check: We are real people. Our conditions are real. Are stories are real (barring the alts..).

Try to be discerning, at least.

(Although the alts can be discouraging, granted..)

Nice try Crystal, but I think everyone but you could see the difference.

To be honest, I expected you to realise that exchange was made up; I guess I overestimated you. I was banking on the fact that the mods had little choice but to put you on mod-preview, whether anyone believed I was made to sit in the kitchen with the dog or not.

Ironically, if the same thing happened again I doubt they'd be able to act any differently, and this doesn't have reflection on their intelligence, just on the way the rules of the forum work.

Maybe you have a slightly better understanding of AsPD now.

Jomp, the forum is 'unreal' to the extent that it is inconsequential in some respects (versus life offline).

But someone's advice still has the ability to significantly alter the course of another person's life, for example.

Some people do come here for advice based on which they expect to make a real life decision. Of course it's their responsibility to use their own judgement, but who else other than other people with the condition does one consult for advice on such matters, whether you are dealing with someone else who has it or yourself?

So denying the reality of it (responsibility) has real implications.

In fact, I think people are more likely to lie in 'real life' precisely because it's of greater consequence. I know I am.

A PD can speak the truth on here, both about themselves and how they live their life, without being demonized under the presumption that others are and live similarly.

-- Tue Jul 09, 2013 8:29 am --

justonemoreperson wrote:To be honest, I expected you to realise that exchange was made up; I guess I overestimated you. I was banking on the fact that the mods had little choice but to put you on mod-preview, whether anyone believed I was made to sit in the kitchen with the dog or not.

Ironically, if the same thing happened again I doubt they'd be able to act any differently, and this doesn't have reflection on their intelligence, just on the way the rules of the forum work.

Maybe you have a slightly better understanding of AsPD now.

Jomp, I knew it was a play from the start. reread the thread and type in the search box ('victim playing'). I called you on it immediately.

I agree that people are more open here. I don't lie on this forum because I don't need to.
I lied on that occasion as I needed to get something I wanted. To be fair, I thought it was so transparent a lie that anyone would have recognised it immediately.

No one with AsPD needs any support or help in the same way that other conditions seem to cry and whine about their lot in life.

But someone's advice still has the ability to significantly alter the course of another person's life, for example.

To expect that in a forum for AsPD is a bit stupid. Asking for advice here is a bit like asking Bill Sykes to look after your wallet.

Some people do come here for advice based on which they expect to make a real life decision.

You don't, and come to think of it I don't know why you come here.

A PD can speak the truth on here, both about themselves and how they live their life, without being demonized under the presumption that others are and live similarly.

It's interesting to see you write that. When I behave in a manner consistent with AsPD (such as this) you react badly towards it. You find it offensive that someone with AsPD would lie and cheat to get their way. You hate the way that I assume I'm always right (because I am, read my sig) that I have a lofty idea of who I am, because I have no problem walking over people whenever I feel like it, etc.

I think the problem is that what you really want is a "general PD" forum to be as active as the AsPD forum. That way you could continue to rattle on about your half-baked nonsense without having to deal with people who genuinely have AsPD.

Jomp, I knew it was a play from the start. reread the thread and type in the search box ('victim playing'). I called you on it immediately.

If you say so. That doesn't explain your questioning the "sitting in the kitchen" incident though, not if you knew it was fabrication.