Why do you stick around this forum?

I don't know what type of gun Jomp has. Whatever he uses for his own ear protection is good enough Crackers.

And she can go elsewhere in the house. She doesn't have to stay in the same room.

That's enough distance and ear protection to muffle the sound to minimal.

So she's supposed to drink her tea in her bedroom and play finger puppets instead of watching tv? With headphones on? That's not a fair compromise.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:I don't know what type of gun Jomp has. Whatever he uses for his own ear protection is good enough Crackers.

And she can go elsewhere in the house. She doesn't have to stay in the same room.

That's enough distance and ear protection to muffle the sound to minimal.

Look Crystal it doesn't matter ok? They have their life and let them live it. Your like a nagging mother in law right now. Lmao! Oh man do you do this to your boyfriend about subjects? Maybe he just grunts and nods. If it works maybe we should all just do that lol.

Are you serious?

We're just discussing things Mr No.

I always found it peculiar how Jomp claims that Crackers 'knows her place' yet she's always taking away his toys, sending him into the kitchen, denying him sex over this or that...

The discussion evolved into something else it seems but that was my initial 'that's strange'.

If Jomp understood what was going on then I wouldn't have said anything. Just seems to me his perception of the situation is out of line with the reality, which is that she controls him.

It might of been better to allow that perception to continue for the benefit of their relationship.
It kinda sounds like she cares about him a lot. For that he is lucky and in turn he tries to accommodate her out of respect and let her have some say. Sounds like a good functional loving relationship. Unlike yours where your using your partner to the fullest degree. Unless your giving out some sort of compensation of course.

Mr. No One wrote:Oh man do you do this to your boyfriend about subjects?

No.

No really I don't try to annoy him...

Quite the opposite I would say.

I definitely am not as fault-finding with him. He's perfect.

-- Tue Jul 09, 2013 6:34 am --

Mr. No One wrote:Unlike yours where your using your partner to the fullest degree. Unless your giving out some sort of compensation of course.

He has emotional needs similar to mine. We understand each other.

It's not as one-sided as I suggest in other unrelated discussions.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:

Mr. No One wrote:Oh man do you do this to your boyfriend about subjects?

No.

No really I don't try to annoy him...

Quite the opposite I would say.

I definitely am not as fault-finding with him. He's perfect.

-- Tue Jul 09, 2013 6:34 am --

Mr. No One wrote:Unlike yours where your using your partner to the fullest degree. Unless your giving out some sort of compensation of course.

He has emotional needs similar to mine. We understand each other.

It's not as one-sided as I suggest in other unrelated discussions.

Live and let live. And look your all happy. Yea!!!!! Lol
And wow he has emotional needs like yours. Yowzers.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:
I don't understand.

No, you really don't, do you?

lol

You really should take the autism test in the other thread.

crystal_richardson_ wrote:Jomp, why do you allow Crackers to control you? You say she 'knows her place' yet time and time again it seems she is the one in control, treating you like a child, taking your toys away, sending you into the kitchen to wait when the Tesco delivery guy comes to the door because you're fuming...

I don't understand.

Fuuuuuuk Crys (insert sarcastic tone), the tesco comment was used on the forum for a purpose which it fulfilled.
The me hiding his guns was a bit of a laff. Although not a bad idea, he does shoot from the windows and it is bloody loud.
Are you upset that you didn't get anywhere with your posting to Jomp yesterday?
I mean, I do understand as it did kind of made you look like you were delusional so maybe this was something to latch onto in an attempt to hurt poor hard done by Jomp. I dunno I could be wrong.

I will share a secret though, be sure to keep it to yourself now!

I do whatever Jomp wants or needs in this marriage. I actually believe that is how it should work. I enjoy knowing he is happy and free to do what he enjoys.
I also enjoy working, shopping, days out with mates all the things that I do regularly (I even manage to keep up with the ironing). Oddly neither of us stops the other from any of this. It's called a trusting marriage on fairly equal ground.

I feel for you Crys because you will never have what I have, you will always fail, especially at love.
You can't succeed at something you know nothing about. I reckon the root (f*ck) you have now would be doing you just for the laugh saying to his mates "yeah, she's loose but gives decent head, it'll do for awhile". You will never have anything substantial.

CrackersnCheese wrote:I feel for you Crys because you will never have what I have, you will always fail, especially at love.
You can't succeed at something you know nothing about. I reckon the root you have now would be doing you just for the laugh saying to his mates "yeah, she's loose but gives decent head, it'll do for awhile". You will never have anything substantial.

I don't agree with this. Just like she doesn't know about your relationship and the in and outs, you don't know about hers. I don't think she was insulting you.