Psychopath "Victim" forums

Yurippe wrote:

katana wrote:

Yurippe wrote:Oh, it was all me. I've broken the hearts of all those people and yes I am asexual and bisexual and I feel terribly bad for it. Take your assumptions elsewhere.

Shut up and stop talking to yourself/ourselves/myself/theirselves.

I should really stop self abusing in the katana account. I think I might have low self esteem

It''s funny you say that. I get a bruised ego everytime I come here because you people always start playing games with one another that I can't understand.

slither wrote:What do you think of the support forums meant for victims of alleged psychopaths?

Never visited one so I don't really have an opinion on it.
But I'm guessing that they are for venting and get support for what the "villain" did to them.
Naturally a big part of the blame is to be put on the victims themselves for letting themselves get treated in that manner. They hate themselves because of this and that's the actual reason for them to seek out the sites -- they want other people to lie to them by saying that nothing was their fault and all the blame should be put on the "psychopath".

And to answer the question: I guess the sites are good for those people, for some people need to delude themselves and find a scapegoat to move forward. :­P

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Too long did not read answer: Pathetic. :­P

slither wrote:It makes sense that they could be an "inter species predator", both beneficial and devastating in small numbers, etc.

Do you consider them another species, or do you mean intraspecies?

slither wrote:And when you have forums to support "psychopath victims", it spreads the ignorance.

Good place to pick up chicks, I'd guess, at least if you resemble the sensitive type.

slither wrote:What do you think of the support forums meant for victims of alleged psychopaths?

I don't care about it. If people want to bitch and whine about someone abusing them instead of actually doing something about it, that's their problem. I really don't think it matters if the abusers are being labelled as psychopaths or not because I doubt too many psychopaths give a shlt about the stigma attached to the label.

Most psychopaths are smart enough to not be detected in public, so any stigma psychopathy has is irrelevant anyway.

Labels seem important to the people on this forum.

Yes, so it seems. We are who we are regardless of the label we're given. I doubt any of us would change if all the labels suddenly disappeared.

kysymys wrote:

slither wrote:It makes sense that they could be an "inter species predator", both beneficial and devastating in small numbers, etc.

Do you consider them another species, or do you mean intraspecies?

My mistake. Intraspecies.

kysymys wrote:

slither wrote:And when you have forums to support "psychopath victims", it spreads the ignorance.

Good place to pick up chicks, I'd guess, at least if you resemble the sensitive type.

Yep, if they can be fooled once...

Yurippe wrote:

katana wrote:

Yurippe wrote:Oh, it was all me. I've broken the hearts of all those people and yes I am asexual and bisexual and I feel terribly bad for it. Take your assumptions elsewhere.

Shut up and stop talking to yourself/ourselves/myself/theirselves.

I should really stop self abusing in the katana account. I think I might have low self esteem

You know you love it really or you wouldn't do it

The problem with having a diagnosis is that, once people know, all of your human rights disappear.

My first wife was on one of these forums, spouting off about how sh1t her life was, all because of me. No one mentioned her personal responsibility to take control of her own life. Once you have a diagnosis you're always the one to blame - even for the stuff that has nothing to do with you.

The sites like this are pointless, as the sort of women who want to get bullied and pushed around by the likes of me will let themselves do it because their very nature is that they don't make good decisions.

justonemoreperson wrote:The problem with having a diagnosis is that, once people know, all of your human rights disappear.

My first wife was on one of these forums, spouting off about how sh1t her life was, all because of me. No one mentioned her personal responsibility to take control of her own life. Once you have a diagnosis you're always the one to blame - even for the stuff that has nothing to do with you.

The sites like this are pointless, as the sort of women who want to get bullied and pushed around by the likes of me will let themselves do it because their very nature is that they don't make good decisions.

This in a nutshell. The people who like to paint themselves as victims are truly the "psychopaths" here more than anyone, their selfish need to pass blame on, to free themselves from guilt, what better person to blame everything on than the one person they know can take it?
My mother had gotten wise to this, she would normally blame me for every failing in the house, missing money, broken obects around the house etc etc. Disguising her obvious accusations with "well intentioned reasoning," to conclude it couldn't have POSSIBLY been anyone else.
If i took the money I would say, if i broke something i would say, not to clear my conscience but because those things don't register as something i need to lie about. It would be akin to me leaving money somewhere and being asked if it was mine and then lying about it.

Victims who do it to themselves, and assume every man or woman who has used them or abused them, fits the profile of a psychopath.

A quick search for "Identifying a psychopath" yields some hilarious results. They seem to be written as a spy novel, "The psychopath makes his way into your life, he feeds off you...." Blah blah blah,
as though this is a standard to be measuring ALL those who fit into the category one way or another.
We have a name for that, it's called stereotyping, it is a bigoted view from people who happen to make up the majority, and they call us the monsters. Frankly they all deserve it.

slither wrote:What do you think of the support forums meant for victims of alleged psychopaths?

I love them.
As soon as these people find out I am married to a psychopath they become very "concerned" I like to play with it. They especially like when I use the words "happily married". It's enjoyable questioning how they came to a conclusion that their partner is a psychopath, they have no clue what to say. I don't like people using terms they do not understand so it's a smile-filled game to play when bored.

slither wrote:It''s funny you say that. I get a bruised ego everytime I come here because you people always start playing games with one another that I can't understand.

It's a total loony bin. ASPD, and Psychopathy. That's why there is a Psyhopathy sub-forum, of course.

It's probably designed that way to get super high ranks on the internet for all the people searching for ASPD and Psychopathy...

Which is about 30 Obsessive Compulsive Maniacs...


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