-Easy answers to your problems does not exist-

My past posts has implied that I might have an answer to mental illness, addictions, mental disorders and diseases etc... Please understand that their is no easy solution to your problems, I am hoping to have a discussion about my ideas and see if we together can find an answer that will help you... Let's start with the history of why my observations at numerous mental health facilities and clients in northern New Jersey USA showed me their is great potential in -Full Time Continuous Kindness- done to clients...

I started to work at a mental health rehabilitation work facility and my job title was a driver to take clients to work sites and back to our facility plus to take the clients home and these clients had a host of disorders from mental illness and addictions and disabilities et... Now as time went on my job descriptions was expanded to over 20 job titles because I liked to be kept busy and I interacted with the clients with compassion and empathy and most of all kindness...

Now I discovered by accident that I could be kind and nice to these clients and as long as I did my job I was given a free hand in thinking up new and better ways to make the clients lives easier as long as it was done at my own expense... When I started too see the results of being kind I and other support staff joined in the kindness to the clients and expanded the acts of kindness into creating an -Atmosphere of Kindness-...

In the beginning of my employment one of the reasons I was hired is that besides driving I would monitor clients and step in between two clients having a confrontation and or calm situtations down... When I first started their were fights and physical and verbal confrontations every day and clients going into psychois once a week and attempted suicides in some form once a month etc...
This controlled chaos was a fact of life in most mental health facilities and you dealt with it accordingly...

Here is where it get's interesting, over time we had developed kindness into an -Atmosphere of Kindness- and all the chaos etc. stopped almost completely and we did not realize what was happening until their were no more suicides or physical fights or verbal confrontations etc... When I reviewed my notes I started to realize that clients were using less medications etc. the trust that clients had with me had them telling me their home life was getting better with their parents and caregivers etc...

Let's stop here and see if you understand what I have tried to get across and please ask any questions that you can think of...