by Wally58 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:05 pm
Physical characteristics can be genetic, so why not at least some brain structure similarities? Many of us can rise above what we were given in our past. Some can not. Our past forms who we are and usually our destiny as well. I feel that early childhood is a more impressional time than what we were initially delivered with at birth.
Lessons our parents learned from their parents, the horror of war, hopelessness, suffering and alcoholism/etc, formed how they may have treated us as we were raised and how it affected us. It can also be cultural and generational.
As an example, alcoholism has ravaged western society compared to eastern peoples. Growing up in an alcoholic household and becoming alcoholic myself as an adolescent was 90% of my problem. Only when the alcohol was removed and with the 12-steps, could I deal with the other 10%.
I am convinced that my life was saved from forces outside of my control. That helps me to believe.
There is a family tree of 'black sheep' in our family. Some we do not know much about, some that no one will speak of, some died young and some were committed to institutions for unknown reasons.
I am truly blessed to live in this time. We are more enlightened and wiser to deal with mental illnesses that there was little hope for, unsupported or misunderstood even 50 years ago. Much of the stigma has vanished, although some may always be there. Medical sciences, understanding of mental disease, methods of treating addiction and social ills are here and now and seem to be improving. The need is great and we still have a lot of work to do.
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