First, congrats that you have successful children who adore their school. You are their loving parents and you decide what is best for them.
As for me, my children are HEALTHIER than my husband or I were. They do not catch colds. They do not wear glasses. They are both top athletes in their sports.
Their childhood is run by their rhythms. They learn what they are interested in.
My children get tutored in the morning and socialize all afternoon with their friends in clubs and sports.
I know it is elite. I know not everybody can afford it.
Concerning college: since you choose which field you wish to study and how many classes you take it's not comparable to the odd institutions that are grade and middle school, etc.
BTW, I couldn't believe at age 20 I was still studying a foreign language at college. Because I take charge of my children's ed, I have made sure they speak foreign languages and have done the AP exams to prove it. So, we are not tackling college in the old-fashioned way, either.
Alright, back to the German EXPERT psychiatrist, Dr. Schanda and his report. He wrote it after a one-hour examination of Melissa. According to Melissa, he made up things she said to prove his point and even the German judge took him off her case.
And I just LOVE the guy on this forum who said Melissa's parents were so bad because they homeschool. Hello! Melissa attended public school for everything but the last few months! The school wanted to boot her out of the college-track "Gymnasium" and into the Vo-Tech program. Her Dad just wanted to avoid that by tutoring her in Latin and Math--she was still attending the other classes she enjoyed, like choir.
The school flipped out fearing other students would follow her in droves. Hell apparently hath no fury love a government-school-monopoly scorned.
Germany is my country, too. I should not have to leave it because the government is, well, pretty much like in that movie Chitty-Chitty Bang Bang. Whoever wrote that book and gave the bad guys all German accents was a knowledgable writer.