When I was 11 years of age I was a little brat. I got really angry and my parents used always fight and at times my mom would rent a room for a week to get away from my dad. Anyway it made me traumatized and I became isolated from society. Because of this, a man up in Dublin diagnosed me with Asperger's and ADHD. He never gave me medication for either of these. I always tought it was a misdiagnosis. When my parents divorced and the fighting stopped, I started to act more normal. I always had friends in school and had many relationships and have good eye contact. Basically I just didn't meet the critea of Asperger's nor ADHD. Here I am now, aged 19 living in Scotland wondering 'I don't even have the thing! It's just a false label!' So then I went to a Psychologist and got assessed, he immediately knew about my ADHD and Asperger's even before I disclosed them to him. He had a record of some sort from the guy who originally diagnosed me. He also knew I have never taken meds. And by heart he knew I did not have either of the conditions, but I know he just didn't want to disagree with the other doctor. Some of the things in the meeting he said to me were like, "You have good eye contact, you are well spoken" and etc. He still didn't un-diagnose me.
Anyway I want to get undiagnosed because it really is a label doing me no good. I am not on SSI for it and never needed help. This label is on my medical records and they are not confidential when I sign a medical release waiver! Meaning the British army asks for permission to see medical records, If I Don't sign it I won't get the job. So basically, I know I'm misdiagnosed, if I successfully get a second opinion, will that opinion overwrite the old one stating Asperger's on my med records?
Thanks in advance, Declan.