by ohwell2013 » Sat Sep 14, 2013 3:00 pm
So called "paranoid" "schizoid" "personalities are just people who are scared of what other evil people can do to them and others. When you sense someone think something bad or plan to do hurt you, it's not paranoia, its normal instinct. It's especially hard when it's someone you trust. My father and mother threatened me all childhood long with emotional games and as a result i have become "hyper sensititve" as an adult. The fact my mother smoked during pregnancy didnt help.
So called schzoid, paranoid personalities are just people who need more calm, tranquility, a safe and predictable environment because their alarm system is constantly on"high" alert. It's probably embeded biologically in their brains.
They re somewhat "christ like" personalities who see, understand, all the evil intentions in others but cannot reveal, expose them , because absolutely everyone is somewhat evil, you d have to spend your life criticizing others and their evil ways.
So you have to keep it shut and do just like everyone else is doing; hide how you survive, hide how you kill slowly, others, instead of being killed by them. There are just powerful people who are used to kill without getting caught, and....others.
Ultimately, these characteristics desrcibed and labeled as "mental illnesses" are just strategies of survival EVERYONE as an animal uses daily. Everyone is paranoid. Everyone is "schizoid" and pretend to like, understand, people they are forced to deal with daily to earn a salary and insure their survival. We are all pretending to be something else different than animals, but make no mistake, we re no "better" than them. Some people are just more peaceful and want a quieter life while others are used to live in fear and violence and often reproduce this once adults to insure their own survival. The big fat bully who was taught to be violent by his big fat father will strive, the skinny son of a single mother kid who was not taught anything, was abandonned by his father who left, and who watched too many carebears animes is going to get crushed both mentally and physically.
Many "fragile" "deep" personnalities are able to understand what lies behind people stares and thoughts. They see the real animal intentions behind all actions. They end cynical, but their cynicism is entirely justified. Better be gullible and naive if you want to be happy. If you cant be naive or gullible, then you better find a very peaceful, quiet, calm place where to live where there wont be much stress and attempts by others humans being to dominate you daily. This is why you have ermits who leave everything because they know they re too smart to be able to stand the daily life in cities full of people constantly harassing you , mainly psychologically nowadays as physical violence is somewhat forbidden as long as the economic stability is assured. Be sure that in times of economic collapse for example, people would throw themselves at each others throats in a matter of days for resources, survival. Fact is if you want to reduce your stress you need very few, significant, peaceful and predictable relationships with people who think alike and need you to insure your survival, living in cities full of comeptition and "enemies" all trying to dominate each others is a receipe for disaster especially for someone who is weak minded , or might I say, who sees too many things and cant stand what he s seeing anymore.
The funny is tho, that whenshit hits the fan, it's the very few people who left cities who have higher odds of survival.
Again, EVERYONE is schizoid and paranoid, everyone has this "traits" of "personality", some are just stronger, more powerful, safer for various reasons , conditionings they often didnt even choose in the first place, and as a result have an easier life, while others are weaker for the same reasons they often didnt choose and when trying to fight back the oppression of those who want to enslave them fail simply because they re not armed enough compared to the competition.