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Postby LunarDrop~ » Sat Mar 03, 2012 4:28 pm

Before I begin, know that I am a serious person who takes everything seriously/into account.

I enjoy having long hair. I like looking shaggy, so I don't mind split ends on hair. In fact I like them. My mother cut my hair today, and I was about to kill her. I get so fruious and so miserable when she cuts it by force, it always seems drastically shorter then it was.

How do I get her to see how it makes me feel? Or how do I get her to stop cutting it?

It may sound childish, but every little detail of everything in my life is important to me.
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Re: I get so furious when

Postby i_am_legion » Sat Mar 03, 2012 5:10 pm

How does she cut it by force?
And how old are you if you don't mind me asking?
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Postby jasmin » Sat Mar 03, 2012 8:27 pm

Why does she cut it by force? That is not appropriate. Have you tried to tell her how it makes you feel? How about trying to get someone else on your side, someone who could maybe help you explain it to her and make her see reason?
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Postby LunarDrop~ » Sat Mar 03, 2012 8:57 pm

I mean, she makes me get it cut. She doesn't harm me, but she makes me.

(Again, it sounds childish, but I really do hate it.)
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Postby i_am_legion » Sun Mar 04, 2012 2:03 am

This doesn't sound childish at all.

Sounds like you need to have a talk with her about boundaries and this is not something she can change. Its about who you are, who you want to be, and your image. If she can't respect you, then she deserves no respect.
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Postby LunarDrop~ » Sun Mar 04, 2012 3:04 pm

I don't know, she gets mad when I show my displeasure, she says I have an attitude.
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Postby jasmin » Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:29 pm

She does need to respect your boundaries. You could ask her how she liked to have her hair at your age and stuff.
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Postby LunarDrop~ » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:01 am

I don't think she minded, or at least, as much.
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Postby jasmin » Tue Mar 13, 2012 5:04 pm

Well if you try to connect with her that way, maybe she'll understand that you have your own tastes and preferences too.
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Postby stardust12 » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:51 am

When I'm working at the people around are so noisy and does not seem to care about me and my work. (I work from home)
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