Anger at Women

Hi,

Just from a female point of view not all women are like what you are describing! I don't want a guys money or anything from them, I like the introverted type and I agree people just just go Dutch on dates etc.

I think use just need to find a decent lady and that may change your opinion! I bet there are gold diggers and major sluts out there. But were not all like that. I want to earn all my money for myself, that way I have accomplished something for myself instead of doing nothing to get it.

I hope use find a nice young lady who can change your views, because we can be really nice and we can give as much as we take maybe even more.

Katrinas-x wrote:Hi,

Just from a female point of view not all women are like what you are describing! I don't want a guys money or anything from them, I like the introverted type and I agree people just just go Dutch on dates etc.

I think use just need to find a decent lady and that may change your opinion! I bet there are gold diggers and major sluts out there. But were not all like that. I want to earn all my money for myself, that way I have accomplished something for myself instead of doing nothing to get it.

I hope use find a nice young lady who can change your views, because we can be really nice and we can give as much as we take maybe even more.

Alright I feel bad for being rude to you already since you said you got raped. I have trouble trusting women though. I am very suspicious. I have never met a gold digger! Just the opposite. I have only met women who cared little for money really. The only girlfriend I had actually gave me money sometimes, so I cant say that is my real issue.

My problem with women, is I feel I have been relegated out of the position of manhood to friend, and that women will only want me as a friend, while they slut around with other men, and my penis is not a small one, so there is no reason for this behavior! It is foolishness, and for some reason, my background with previous girlfriend has shown me very unromantic woman and instability, so I find I absolutely cannot sleep around casually.

This other woman has done something strange to my mind. More and more I think she was a very subtle manipulator. I have blocked her out, but her work was complete, and I know feel like the bad guy unless I let my woman be a slut, and also I believe they are all sluts! Its hard to describe, but it makes me very angry!

I cannot say I have met a woman who was not a slut. I really think that women I am interested in are sleeping around casually and that I am some outsider to this whole business. How can I really have one of these women, if they are property of some sort of social structure. Like I have heard said about Turkish women, if you marry a Turkish woman, then you have to marry her extended family as well, not that Turkish women are sluts, but hell I don't want to be "one of her guys" to the extent that well the friends a woman has shouldn't have to become my friends!

Also I feel like a $#%^ then just because the woman already has friends? $#%^, do they just have sex in their own social circle or what? They are all exclusive members of various social circles? It is really perplexing to me. I dont want to date someone's extended social circle.

Maybe who I really hate is men, for taking all the women. Men create and help maintain this social control over women, and its not very interesting. Feel like I have to fight them. I'll buy a sword.

Well, lucky for you...I have run in to many more women who want money. Maybe not severe gold-diggers but they are still looking to get some benefit out of you.

What I have run in to on a VERY FREQUENT BASIS (as you have) is women just wanting to be my friend and nothing more, while they have sex with many other men. It kind of hurts a bit. None of the women that I have really wanted to be in a relationship ever chose me. I am introverted though, not aggressive. I'm nice, I'm not pushy, I'm not cocky either. I'm not in the most best physical shape either, but I am not obese either. I am overweight. Seems like the good looking girls that I am attracted to want guys who look a lot better than I do. At least that is what I attribute my lack-of-success to.

Funny thing, women who I am not attracted to, usually want ME. Isn't that funny.

I sometimes think I am just unlucky, and somehow missing things. Even my ex girlfriend said that I was her favorite boyfriend and claimed that I had a nice cock. I think I am fair in bed, but I cannot understand what is going on.

Well, I know one woman who slightly needed help from me, a roll of toilet paper, a drink, borrow laptop, etc, but I am generally okay with that as long as I don't go broke. After all I am alone mostly and being stingy isn't all that interesting.

I am not even sure why I am alone. Sometimes I think I am not the one with the mental problem, but other people are! I can perform in bed, hold a decent conversation, etc, but people act so damn strange! Like too formal. I cant understand them. My response is to clam up! The anger and tension build up inside.

Sometimes I think its the USA, the people in the USA are difficult for me. Ive always been too shy, but nothing else is wrong with me. I tried to leave the USA before, but foreigners could not understand why an American wanted to leave.

NWIBOY wrote:Well, lucky for you...I have run in to many more women who want money. Maybe not severe gold-diggers but they are still looking to get some benefit out of you.

What I have run in to on a VERY FREQUENT BASIS (as you have) is women just wanting to be my friend and nothing more, while they have sex with many other men. It kind of hurts a bit. None of the women that I have really wanted to be in a relationship ever chose me. I am introverted though, not aggressive. I'm nice, I'm not pushy, I'm not cocky either. I'm not in the most best physical shape either, but I am not obese either. I am overweight. Seems like the good looking girls that I am attracted to want guys who look a lot better than I do. At least that is what I attribute my lack-of-success to.

Funny thing, women who I am not attracted to, usually want ME. Isn't that funny.

Yes, I have encountered this "just be friends thing" and even am encountering it right now, though its not so bad, as the girl isn't wildly attractive to me anyway, and not really on my intelligence or experience level. So it doesn't bother me just to be a friend. I did sex on her one time after first meeting.

However, my ex tried this with me, just be my friend now, and she has a kid with someone else. Something about her attitude was very patronizing, like looking down on me. I blocked her email.

I was especially enraged by her idea of me as a celibate, like it was a joke that I couldn't find another woman. These bawdy broads like her, they don't age well! Their sweet attitudes when younger become bitchy when older. She was sort of unique, but became a normal bitch mom with an over-dosed junky's daughter.

I am disgusted by a general lack of fairytale endings. I read fairytales as a boy! I would never have kids. I count myself as unlucky to have met this bitch.

michijo wrote:
Alright I feel bad for being rude to you already since you said you got raped.

When did I say that?

And mabey you'll have this hatred of women until you meet the right woman for you, I really hope you find someone who can change how you feel.

And I'm also disappointed with the lack of fairytales

Katrina.

Katrinas-x wrote:

michijo wrote:
Alright I feel bad for being rude to you already since you said you got raped.

When did I say that?

And mabey you'll have this hatred of women until you meet the right woman for you, I really hope you find someone who can change how you feel.

And I'm also disappointed with the lack of fairytales

Katrina.

You said it in another thread, about partners cheating on each other. I somehow empathized, though I don't normally understand rape from a woman's view, I suddenly felt I understood the psychological effects of rape on a woman.

Ahh ok, I didn't realize I posted anything about it! I've never spoke about it really, I don't know why I did that. But I'm sort of glad you empathized, empathy is important to a person I think.

Katrina.

Katrinas-x wrote:Ahh ok, I didn't realize I posted anything about it! I've never spoke about it really, I don't know why I did that. But I'm sort of glad you empathized, empathy is important to a person I think.

Katrina.

I was listening to some strange wave music Chameleons from England, and coincidentally read about rape, and the music acted as a possible theme for post traumatic rape stress in my mind. It is only coincidence I read the thread while on youtube.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zh-gruM9Egc&feature=related